Somebody puh-leassse!!!?

Question

help me..

well me and my bf broke up on thursday after almost a year [3 years counting the dating before]..

it all started because i noticed him acting different and asked him about it and he said he didnt know why..so i left it like that and it continued for a few more days so i stopped trying to make an effort because he is so stubborn and NEVER wanted to talk about any arguements or anything..so we were talking[texting!] on thursday and he told me "dont think too much" and we just went back and forth about how the relationship had been and i told him we needed to have a serious talk that was either going to make us or break us..and he said "you already know i dont like talking" so i told ok well then tell me what you want..he said "i think we need a break ok bye" and i called him and he told me "dont call me" so i replied with.."i dont take breaks its all or nothing." and he turned it around on me as if i was the one who wanted this to end and said "fine if you want it to end like that then its nothing." and i never wrote back because i was so hurt.

i dont know what to do i want to talk to him so bad..he made me so happy and instead of trying to work things out he threw it away..he ended up telling me the reason why he was acting different was because of all the fighting..after he told me he didnt want anything i didnt write back then about 10 min later he text me again saying ok bye.i still didnt write back [i got the point by then] and then..at 1 in the morning [all this ended about 930pm] he text me again saying "dont call me out because ill pull the smallest strings"..and again i didnt write back!! i dont even know what he meant by that!

but why is he doing this and how should i act???

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Answer 1

I would ignore him, he is acting like a jerk.