Someone called me a bad name behind my back GIRLS ONLY PLEASE!?

Question

so I got off the bus this afternoon about 5 minutes ago and my neighbor Kara came up to me and told me that she can see my bra though my shirt and I said "okay I don't care" and then she said "people think that you have fake b***s" (because I wear a padded bra) and I said "no I don't, why would anyone think that" and then she said that my neighbor said that my b***s were as big as water balloons and I said "she can call me what ever she wants I don't care" then she said goodbye and walked away. that actually really insulted me a lot and me and Victoria (the girl that said my b***s were as big as water balloons) got in a fight 2 years ago. she is a couple days older than me and she is in 6th grade and I am in 5th grade (cut off dates). do you think that is mature that she said something like that to a kid that is developed very early in Elementary (developed in 2nd grade). I think that is mean I I can't seem to get over the subject and I am only ten and I need help please I am like crying and I don't want to tell my mom

Answer 1

umm just dont talk to her pretend shes invisble! or just dead

Answer 2

HAHAHAHAHAHAHAAAAAAAAAAA you're insecure. NO but on the real tell me where that ***** lives i bust cap off in her S****y ***

Answer 3

dont worry, ppl like that arent worth the trouble

Answer 4

go punch her and tell her that she isn't mature enough

Answer 5

it really isn't a big deal. Besides, it isn't any of your business what other people think of you

Answer 6

Dont cry!!! I think they're just jelous tbh : )

Answer 7

w

Answer 8

tell her off. u are who are! and she brings up the subject again ignore her!

Answer 9

*just listening*.....(although I do like the idea of telling her she has a fake butt).

Answer 10

girls are mean and immature. you handled it very well by saying that you don't care! ignore whatever is said about you because people are only doing it to make you feel bad. if you don't let it get to you, that makes you way better then them :-)  

Answer 11

tell your mom.

tell your mom.

tell your mom.

simple as that. Im sure shell understand. You're not old enough to handle this on your own. Im pretty sure she won't get mad. Why would she get mad at you? Take a deep breath and tell her.

Good luck.  

Answer 12

relax and forget about

Answer 13

Honey, there will be people hurting your feelings the rest of your life...

Do something else to make yourself forget about it...

The other girl who said this has already forgotten the conversation, and moved on to playing video games......

Answer 14

next time she does it make a comment about her b***s

if she has big b***s say "how much did you pay for those"

and if there small say "atleast i got something"

if shes says yours are fake again say "atleast i got my moneys worth"

and laugh and walk away

lol i used to get this all the time

Answer 15

hey don't be insulted she's jealous that you are maturing faster than she is.  And when you guys get a little older she'll wish she were you.

Answer 16

who cares. you are just a kid and none of that gossip will matter to you when you get older. just be mature about it and forget it.

Answer 17

Just ignore the rumors, I know it hurts, but be the better woman and ignore.  As for your early developing, so did I when I was your age, but later on in life, it didn't matter any more.  If Kara's your friend, tell her to keep all the gossip to herself and stop spreading it even if she means well.  Be strong and smart.

Answer 18

thats stupid u dont have to believe

what other people to tell u they

say it to put u down

i am 14 years old and dont care

unless they really start bugging then

i kick there *** but yeah ignore them they

just want attention try stealing what they

are trying to get

Answer 19

Unfortunately, Truth be told, she's jealous and trying to turn it around. LEt it go. That's the best thing you can do for yourself. Sure, it sucks... but jealously is a compliment, right? Better that than a ton of other stuff :)

Answer 20

IF THAT MEANIE GIRL SAYS YOU HAVE FAKE b***s TELL HER SHE HAS A FAKE BUTT!!!

Answer 21

she's jealous!! don't worry about it, everyone has to meet people like that in life, just be the bigger person and don't care cuz she's not worth it!!  

Answer 22

Be proud of who you are don't let that mean girl put you down. Ya she shouldn't be talking like that. If she keeps doing this tell your mom and maybe she can do something about it.

Answer 23

I think it is very imature. Just remenber you are who you are. Always love yourself. Im 10 too. Ive always been teased

Answer 24

Usually when girls talk about the size of another girl's b***s, it is b/c she's jealous.  You are probably prettier, smarter, and have way better b***s than Victoria.  Don't worry about it.  :)

Answer 25

DRAMA>>>>Let it go!!  xox

Answer 26

Don't tell your mom. Girls are evil.  They are just jealous.

Answer 27

It'll be fine read a book called The Care And Keeping Of You by american girl magazine it has a section about dealing with people like that

Answer 28

no it's not very mature of her... but remember, she's probably just jealous that you have b***s.

next time you see her tell her that it's alright and that you forgive her for being jealous... then walk away... i suggest that you bring a close friend tho... when ppl get embarrased, they tend to get evil.

also, if/when you do this... don't do it in public and make sure(like REALLY sure) that she actually said this, it could just be a rumour

Answer 29

she is probably just jealous of you.  I got mine around that age and the other girls got jealous.  Ignore her.

Answer 30

Bless you. Some kids mature earlier than others and unfortunately you seem to be one of them. Don't take any notice of those who make fun of you as they are as jealous as h**l of you. Just make the most of your attributes and ignore everyone else.

A word of warning though, don't go "overboard" as you could be classed as jail-bait and those of a certain nature may try to take advantage

Answer 31

She is just trying to upset you.  Anyone who would believe that a 5th grader has fake b***s is an idiot.  She knows it's not true, she just wants to get a rise out of you.  Don't let it work.  =)