I am an attendant in a wedding and my husband is a grooms man. We have known the couple for less than 2 years.
There were two showers in a town that is 3 hours away. I couldn't go to the first, and didn't go to the second one because I have a 2 year old and an 8 month old. 6 hours of driving and 4 hours for a party was too log, even if I took my baby with me like the bride suggested. Also, we just bought a new house, so money is a little more on the tight side right now. I really couldn't afford to drive up there and back and bring a gift, etc.
Was I wrong not to go?
Also, the joint bachelor and bacheloret parties are next weekend (in town). We are supposed to go to a fancy restaurant (will cost us $200 for food and drinks) and then go to Dave and Buster's afterward (more $$$$).
My dress cost $200, Tux $100, the wedding is 3 hours away so gas, plus hotel room for minimum 1 night, babysitters for all these events, gifts, hair, shoes, ahhhh!
It is getting to be too much. I don't think the bride understands. I am so frustrated. Does anyone have any advice for me before I go nuts?
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