Someone give me your opinion!?!?!?

Question

okay, so me and my friend were planning on going to a party tonight. and i told my boyfriend about it and he told me that he doesn't want me to go to it because he doesn't like the people that will be there & doesn't trust them with me being there. and he told me that if i go, he will break up with me. but i reallllly want to go. do you think if i secretly go that will be a bad idea? but also i feel bad for like ditching my friend. i don't know what to do. =/

Answer 1

what type of people are they?

maybe your bf thinks they drug addicts or bad people...

but if it's something else then you should go.

your bf can't make decisions for you, he is only part of your life not your whole life, so live it up, if he breaks up with you cause you want to have a good time then his loss

Answer 2

You shouldn't let your boyfriend tell you where you can or can't go.   That's very controlling behavior that needs to be nipped in the bud before it gets worse.  You should be able to make your own decisions and if he can't trust you then he has a problem.  That kind of thing is just the beginning of controlling behavior if you let him get away with it.  Very destructive in the long run and can lead to physical abuse eventually.  Believe me, I have seen this type of problem many times.

Answer 3

dont betray ur love for a party come on besides he trusts u that u wont go dont betray his trust

Answer 4

If you respect your man and want it to work and know he will be upset if you go then don't go, your friend will understand. Relationships sometimes are about sacrificing things that you really want to do, afterall it's only a party.