Someone help! I think I'm losing my best friend because of her mom! Answer please! =[

Question

Hey guys, well I already posted this question but I seriously need some help so PLEASE answer.

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20080802152005AAHh9aL&r=w

Oh, and she wasn't in New York City, it was actually a very small town. Anyway, I'm afraid that her mom is making her avoid me because I tried calling a few times and she doesn't answer. The camp was for her church so it wasn't trying to turn her straight or anything. If you have any other questions about what happened please ask because I know some people will get the wrong idea. Oh, and she has "Stopped cutting". I'm not sure if she has but it's what she says. She is Mormon and I think they are against g*y, bisexual, lesbians, etc. And I'm pretty sure once her mom found out that she is bi she just automatically blamed it on me because she didn't want her perfect mormon daughter to be bi. Her parents are divorced and I don't think her dad knows about her being bi yet. Thanks!

Answer 1

Sometimes Missy people leave our lives even if we don't want them too. I understand that this is one of your oldest friends and you feel you'll really be miserable without her, but you need to take a deep breath and exhale slowly.

Now I think you will have to let her go. I now YOU are trying to reach HER, but how much is SHE trying to reach YOU?  Think about it. Is she making calls to you, or trying online? If the answer is no, then you will need to give this a break for the rest of the summer. Maybe when the school year starts up she'll get back in touch with you. Maybe not. If not, you'll have to let it go.

Remember always it takes 2 to have a relationship--friendship or romantic. If she's not putting the energy in and "letting" her mom run the show that really does tell you something.

Chin up, chick!