Someone offer us to adopt a Baby and her due date is on 20 September?

Question

I need help desperately - should i adopt a baby while i'm already a 41 years old this year + my husband is 45 years old this year

We have been married for 16 yearS (with 4 miscarriages)

The baby is due on 20 September 2008.....Please Help

Answer 1

If you and your husband want to raise a child and can provide for a child, then yes!  

Answer 2

sorry to hear about the miscarriages :(

But oh yeah definately adopt!! If your willing to unconditionally love and treat this child like she was your own....then go for it.

Give a child a life that he/she deserves.

Best wishes hon x

Answer 3

do you want to adopt? do you have a choice?

this is a choice that only you and your husband can make.

Answer 4

Age is just a number. Besides 41 is not old at all! You have an opportunity.....take it!

Good Luck

Answer 5

Go for it!  If you want a baby, take your chance!  If you wait any longer you will be retired when the kid goes to college!

Answer 6

How can anyone help you without knowing more information??

I recommend that you see a family therapist with your husband ASAP.  They will help you talk out the concerns, and organize everything, so you can decide if you should do it or not.

Answer 7

Do you have any kids together? I would do it wether you do or not!

Answer 8

I think it would be a very brave , sweet and noble thing for you to give this baby a life it needs .. I think you should go for it .. Good Luck  

Answer 9

I don't really think your age matters quite as much as the fact that you have to ask this question.  Most people I know who have had problems having children of their own would jump at this chance.  Yes, you'd be a bit older, but probably also more mature, more secure in your finances, etc...  The fact that you've been married so long hopefully says that you have a stable relationship.  

But the most important thing is whether you still want a baby in your heart.

Good luck to you!

Answer 10

If you want to adopt then here's your chance. Call a lawyer in the morning.

Best of luck.