Someone please give me some good advice?

Question

I know this boy, we have beem friends for months now, and after me and him started talking on the phone for a minute, i started to have sexual feelings for him, and then i stared having phyiscal,and emotional feelings for him...we have been having s*x for like two months now..AND i really like him. But he's a rapper in our city so he gets alot of attentio from girls and he likes to go out and part alot. But anyway we have been having sexual relations for a while now and i really like him, but he says to me he dont want no girl, What should I do??? Please Help!!!!

p.s and he's not a very attractive person..he gets his attention from the way he dress and his rapping skills..[he is ugly] i like him for his personality

Answer 1

I think you should sit down and have a long serious conversation with him. Tell him the way you really feel about him. Trust me, He'll listen to you, and try to understand you. That's really sweet, that you like him for who he is and not because of his looks. You seem like a great person. Explain to him, That You really do care about him, and if he doesnt want a girl...then you cant keep on having s*x with him...because you want more from him, than just a series of one night stands. Tell him you really do want a serious relationship from him, and you dont like bein used just for s*x....and see where it go4es from there. I hope I helped =)

Answer 2

He's already made it very clear that he doesn't want a girl so you need to decide if you want to continue being his booty call .

You are nothing more right now than a friend with benefits .

I sure hope you are using protection . If not you are going to end up either pregnant or with an STD . If not both . Considering his life style and how you have described him it could very well happen .

Honestly though you need to drop the benefit package and just be friends .  

Answer 3

in this situation you really need to do whats best for you, if you want him to only be with you tell him and if hes not interested you should move on

Answer 4

He took what he like from you ,from your body and gone ...that is all ,the relations now is like that ...froget that ..look foewrod

Answer 5

Move along

Answer 6

Sounds like he's using you.  If you're OK with that then carry on.  But if you're looking for a meaningful relationship that goes both ways, he's already stated his intentions.

All you can do is sit down and have a conversation with him to see if you are both on the same page, then go from there.  Please remember that you can't change anyone; if he wants to change then it will only happen if it's his decision.

It sounds like he's enjoying all the extra attention from other women though, so I wouldn't hold my breath if I were you.  But like I said, if you're cool with a physical-only relationship, then right on.

Answer 7

Stop having s*x with him.  He sounds like he isn't worth your time since he doesn't want to have a relationship besides s*x.  Find somebody worth your while.

Answer 8

Rather he's the most attractive guy or not isn't as important as your health and well being. This guy you really like and have all these feelings for has stated that he doesn't want a girl friend, ok, and you realize that he does get a great deal of attention from his rapping and maonr of dressing. Then maybe you should seriously consider that as danagerous. The same thing he's told you might be his regular speech to other girls" I don't want a girlfriend right now" yet he's fine with sleeping with them and you for that matter. I would limit things to a non sexual friendship with that guy, and take your time and really get to know the next guy. So you aren't having sexual relations with a guy that's not going to commit equally.

Answer 9

When a guy says he doesn't want you.  Then find another guy who does want you.  Or else you'll end up wasting your time.  And your life will go nowhere.

Answer 10

well if you guys are having s*x and he is telling you that he doesnt want a girl, then he might be cheating on you, but he doesnt think that he is because he doesnt really see you guys as being "in" a relationship. you really need to sit down with him and tak about what you guys need to do. because it doesnt really sound like you two are on the same page