Someone please help me!!?

Question

ok so up until recently, i was the typical goody two shoes. i never did anything with guys, i got (and still do) good grades, never partied, involved in a millon extra-curriculars... etc. well now i party (occasionally), i do a lot of stuff with guys, although i still do really well in school. so my question is, is that normal? to just change like that? should i try and revert to my old lifestyle?

Answer 1

yeah its normal

Answer 2

Great your grades are still good,party a little, fine. Don't become loose with the boys if you know what i mean. Dating a few is fine but i hope you are not sleeping with all these boys cuz that will lead to trouble. Pregnancy(there goes school), STD'S, AIDS.....Death sentence and ruined life. have fun but use your brains before making your decisions. Let goody two shoes show you the way sometimes. Good Luck and be careful.

Answer 3

People change when they get exposed to new stuff. Change does not mean good or bad. As long as you priorities are straight and you don't slack off and be lazy from having too much than you'll be just fine.

Good Luck, Dj Jennyfey!! ♦

Answer 4

It's normal. There are plenty of people who never thought outside their "goody-two-shoes" mind and image, but changed later on because of curiosity, influence, or peer pressure. As long as you still commit to getting good grades, I think you should continue to have fun, relax, and enjoy yourself a bit. I don't know about doing "a lot of stuff with guys" though. Not to sound motherly or anything, but be careful what you do with them.  

Answer 5

no way. changing is part of life and by what you are mixing with boys and good grades is totally normal.It is possible if you change your self back to how you were before could leave a bad influence on other people of you.Also say there is a new guy in school you really like and who likes you he will be reconsidering the thought of asking you out thinking you might me one of the dorky kids.A little change is always good (only if the change is good) and who knows you might discover a whole new part of yourself. I definately think you should give it a try.

Answer 6

Throughout life we all change to a certain degree, aslong as you are still doing well at school and such it is fine to party and see boys... But just dont do anything to drastic to young unless you are 100 percent sure ok  

Answer 7

Hehehehe...

I can do good in college and raise h**l on Saturday nights at the same time - it just means you are part of a special minority of people...

Those who are smart, but not snobs...