Someone tell me what these two dreams mean? PLEASE!?

Question

my grandfather dies a year and a half ago. we never really got along......he forced me to study 24/7 (i was 12 at the time) made me read encylopedias. But since he died things have been differnet. I have only dremt of him since then of about twice.

1) I was for some reason running really hard to the elevator (this was back at my apartment) and I oress the elevator button and finally it comes. When it opens.....I see my grandfather except he's leaning all the way acroos trying to hide himself from me..... he was wearing his hat, joggging outfit, and running shoes (the clothes he dies in) and I didn't go in I was too shocked. of what was in front of me..

2) We were at his house I was sitting on the couch. there were a lot of peole there. My grandfather was circulating the house with my grandmother apparently he was very mad at her..( i dont know why. When i went up to him to hug him cuz i was so happy, it wasnt him....it was someone else. who looked completly difernt.

help,plz

Answer 1

Maybe your grand father was a tough cookie ; but it appears to me ; that someone on the other side teach him to help others and as a can see ; he decide to protect his grand daughter . IN both dreams your grand father was telling you ;; do not   get to upset with some of your friend ; because they do not deserve you ; and also some stress who is part of your life now ; will be short live

Answer 2

well, Dreams are often the reflection of the subconciouss and conciouss attempting to balance each other out. Freud refered to the human mind in three parts: the id (our natural drives and instincts), the ego (our identity), and the superego (laws and practices we are indoctrinated with). When these parts of the mind become inbalanced due to outside stress or activity s******g with the ego, it creates mental dilemmas, often resulting in conflict between the subconcious and conscious. To resolve the problem, the mind works to isolate the cause of stress and eliminate it to preserve mental stability. This is where dreams come in. Dreams serve as a meeting place between the thoughts of the waking world (the problem) and our brain's near limitless problem-solving ability (the subconciouss). Your brain will often try to break down complex messages to the ego on how to apply a solution to the problem through means it thinks are pertinent to the individual a.k.a. symbolism. Although, the meaning of the symbolism usually eludes us, it often masks a pertinent self-truth that we can apply if we truly try to find it from our own perspective. Hence strange dreams, the mind's way of preserving mental stability and revealing self-truths to the individual. Hope this helped. If you want to bone up on this, Freud's treatise on Dream Interpretation is running cheap these days; interesting stuff.