Something about my social life?

Question

Hi everyone. I like to talk to people a lot. However, I don't think I am a boyfriend type. I would like a girlfriend, but I don't think girls like me. I am not popular, I am actually the smart type. It seems like girls only like the bad boys, or the stupid ones. Why is that? I know I have a long time to go (I'm only in middle school), but I am worried that I won't ever get a girlfriend. I don't want to turn dumb. I actually care about my grades and future. It seems like I will be lonely.

I'm not worried about other people. I just want to maintain my grade thought high school. And most girls won't date smart people. And I'm not very good at sports. I'm also not the most popular. I just don't want to be the only one without a girlfriend. Although, most girls do like to be friends with me, and talk to me.

Answer 1

Don't change yourself. There are girls out there who will like you for who you are. It will happen. The fact girls like to be friends and talk to you is a great start

Answer 2

you should not worry about your social life because you will find a girl someday.. if you want you can try to chat girls from other country and who knows you will find her there..

Answer 3

Don't worry bud, just give it some more time.  I was sixteen when I had my first relationship.  I can almost guarantee that you won't be the only guy without a girlfriend.  Just establish a good group of friends - guys and girls - to hang out with, and things will just develop from there.

Answer 4

Don't give up! I love the smart guys, I want a guy who doesn't have to take time to think about what the meaning of string is, and the bad boys are SO superficial. Just be yourself and people will like you, trust me.

And High School is such a big place with so many different groups, it's like middle school times three, so you will fit in and there will be girls who like you, so just wait.

Answer 5

Hey there, Smart is great and trust me I know. My husband is brilliant and he was a geek in school. Being smart is so much better then being popular you'll see one day. I would rather be with a smart guy any day of the week. Just continued doing what you are doing you will be the one that ends up going somewhere with your life and you will have plenty of girls because of it. The bad boys always turn out to be the losers you'll see that at your 15 to 20th year high school reunion they will all be wishing that they did what you did. as far as it goes for the girls that like talking to you they may actually like you but your brains might intimidate them ask one of them out they might surprise you. Just be very selective when choosing a girl don't just go for a pretty girl make sure she has some brains and can challenge you or else you will end up bored. Patience.. good things come to those who wait.

Answer 6

It's unfortunate, but most girls don't go looking for the nice guy until they've been hurt a few times.  Give it time, and allow yourself to accept the fact that right now you are the guy the girls are "just friends" with.  Over the years, you will learn more about girls by talking to them and being their friend than you would if you were dating them.  

Answer 7

wow. you seem my type. i know you think that you are not the boyfriend type but believe it or not..... girls just date the popular ones because they want to be popular. just wait a while... your time will come smart guys like you, are usually the ones girls look for, they just don't want to admit it. everyone thinks they should be popular and live their life being stupid. and anyway your smart for staying in school and caring about your grades that's cool because you will probably go to college and get a scholarship. good luck on finding a girlfriend and feel free to email me

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Answer 8

That's BS.  School is not like the rest of the world.  People grow up.  One day, the tables will turn and you'll get the girls and the bad boys will be losers who couch surf at their mom's and work at burger king.

Answer 9

Give it time, maintain your grades, and plan your future.  Your time will come, just like Bill Gates, and Michael Phelps.  Before they were rich, and famous nobody want anything to do with them at school.  Look at them now.  If girls want to be friends, go ahead and be friends.  Trust me! He who laugh last, laugh all the way to he bank, with a gorgeous chick in his arm.

Answer 10

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