Sometimes I feel like not doing good in school?

Question

Sometimes I feel like not doing good in school because my own parents don't care how I do, on one of my report cards in 9th grade I got 4 A's and 3 B 's and my parents did not even say good job, their not like those parents that always check to see if their kid has done their homework and when I get good grades on my report card their kind of like whatever, I mean they don't say whatever but that is kind of how they act and also I'm probably going to end up going to a community college anyways because they are A LOT cheaper and I have a problem learning in bigger groups, that is why in school I take a math class that only has about 10 kids in it and I already feel stupid because that, it is a special ed class but I don't need it because of the special ed part, I need it because like I said before I learn better in smaller groups and I know that I do better in math than kids not in those smaller classes because I got pass advance on the math sol in 8th grade and in 9th grade I also did good in the class and they teach the same stuff but in smaller groups and a little bit slower but yeah, I feel like why should I do good, their is no point, no one cares if I do and it's not like I need it for college because I will probably end up going to a community college and I'm 15 by the way and I'm going to be a sophmore this year

Answer 1

I don't know if this will help, but...

You're doing good in school, look for scholarships. if you're good in school I'm sure you can find a scholarship. don't waste your knowledge hunny, try and go to a good school. Now I'm a high school dropout and have my GED (general education development) diploma. I'm now going to a community college and am planning to transfer to a four year college. maybe that's the route for you, I dunno. Don't worry about what your parents say, do things for YOU!  

Answer 2

As our world continues to globalize and get smaller, we're basically competing for the same jobs as the rest of the world. For this reason, you need the BEST grades from top notch schools and universities.

Your parents grew up in a much different world than what we're in today including the job market once you graduate. Keep up the good work and earn the good grades for your future.

Best of luck.

Answer 3

One of the most important things that everyone needs to have is to ignore what people think of you. You are obviously doing very well in school, but think you don't because your parents aren't giving you enough support and that you are in a special class.

1. Parent support is a good thing to have, but the most important part is that you support yourself. Obviously, you are doing very well, much more than a lot of people (I wish yahoo answers has underline, then I would underline that, lol). You are a good student, and that is all that matters.

2. It's ok if you don't do well in big groups. Everyone has weaknesses for everything, this is obviously it. So what if it's a special class, it's only because you're shy around lots of people, just like me *wink wink. There's nothing to be ashamed of! Once again, it's only one of your weaknesses, you're still doing really well!

None of these things are anything to worry about, what I suggest for you to do is to believe more in what you do, and to stop focusing on what people think of you. Just have confidence, then you'll know you can do it! Good luck!  

Answer 4

The harder you work, the more you will learn. Learning is what school is all about. You're not there to make grades to get into the best college. You are there to pick up information you will need in the future as well as to practice the art of learning itself. You should strive to do well so you can leave school with all of the progress you could make.

When you get to community college, you will still have to take an entrance exam. If you've studied well in high school, you will be able to pass the exam with flying colors. This will mean that you'll be able to place in higher classes. For example if you need math 2 (or whatever) for your degree, you will need to do well enough on the entrance exam to be allowed to take it. If you don't score high enough to go straight to math 2, you will have to start at whatever level of math you do qualify for. Since classes even at a community college can be 200-300 dollars with a 100 dollar book fee, that can really add up. Not to mention spending a semester taking an extra class just to get into the class you really needed.

Doing well in high school will save you time at college. You'll already have a lot of the skills you need and be practiced at studying and learning new material.

As for your parents not caring about your good grades, you'll just have to get over it or talk to them about it. You could always ask them how they feel about your grades and ask if they could show a little more enthusiasm. If they just can't get excited about a report card, it is NOT the end of the world. Personally I had parents who would ground me for getting a C but they didn't care a bit if I came home with all A's. Hardly fair, but I survived. Your grades are about your own accomplishments, not just to impress your folks. If your parents are focused on other aspects of your life, you will just have to be happy with being proud of your own grades.  

Answer 5

Whatever the problem is, please don't quit school. Your parents are this way maybe because they haven't seen the good side of you yet. Don't let this problem ruin your education because you will only be in school once and if you drop out, you will regret later in life. I will suggest you to continue getting those grades and don't worry so much about what your parents think. Keep on doing what you have to do until you go to college. When you are in college, you are an adult. When you are an adult and you are older, your parents might begin to realize that they have raised you right and you are not a failure after all. Then they might start to accept you for who you are.

Answer 6

I know it seems hard right now but you need to not give up. Your doing really well. ANd trust me high school is such a waste of time and it sucks but it just somethign u have to go through. BUT once college comes, you'll be so happy cause its so much better then high school. SO just keep doing well, dont give up cause its all going to be worth it in the end.  

Answer 7

you have to do good in school for yourself, your reward is getting a great education and having a dream job. im proud of you for making a A,s and B's there are tons of kids who can care less what they make and guess what, they are going to be the ones that end up working at walmart. keep doing what your doing. some kids are different, id rather be in a smaller class as well because you learn waaay better that way if you were in special ed or not.

hope i helped.

Answer 8

yo honestly... if your going to community college you can just not even care about HS grades....

i know ppl who got C's and D's their whole HS career and then went to community college and worked their @sses off for like 2 years and then transferred into really good universities...

so basically have fun now... get decent grades... know the material.. work you @ss off in CC.

Answer 9

Do it for YOU dear. Don't ever do something to get others approval, follow your own and be proud of you. My parents were like that also, I did get to where i didn't care, even cheated my way thru 11th and 12 grade a lot. Now I am 52 and am back in school and loving it. Wish I had of not let my parents and others pull me down. You can easily work part time and go to community college, get you associates degree and you can get a great job with just that. My sister is a recovering alcoholic, she got well and went to comm. college 2 years, now she is a very good councilor, loves her job and makes 22.00 an hour and lots of good benefits too.Don't let other people (eat your lunch) You go girl, I don't even know you and I am very proud!

Answer 10

you could still get a scholarship to a community college, and unless your parents are pretty much paying for it, you should care because it will cost you money. Then of course, there is learning for the sake of learning. aren't you curious about the things around you? the more you learn in highschool, the less you will have to learn in college.  

Answer 11

"on one of my report cards in 9th grade I got 4 A's and 3 B 's"

GOOD JOB

1. Your parents sound like they have some kind of problem. Do well in school for you, not for them..

2. There is nothing wrong with going to community college. I went to one and ran circles around the other students when I transfered to a university.

3. You should not feel stupid because you are in a special ed class. I was in one, I had a 3.8 GPA in college. I couldn't have done it without attending special ed classes in primary and secondary school.

Please don't give up on yourself. You are doing well. The world needs smart, educated people.

Answer 12

It is unfortunate that your parents have not picked up on the effort that you have made in school, but remember, your education is about YOU, your potential, your future. If you were to do well in school, in college, and move on to a great career in the field of your choice, and your parents never gave you so much as a smile for it, then that makes attaining that goal no less desirable.

You could try asking your parents one day - "Do you appreciate the effort that I make at school? Did you notice the As on my card?" I often find that addressing an issue head-on is a good way to put it behind you, and sometimes its the only way.

Answer 13

Do it for yourself. If you keep those grades up, you can get into a really nice (and small) private college and get nice scholarships. Dream big :)