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When I decided to adopt, I thought I was doing a good thing. I didn't realize there were so many judgemental people (I'm not talking about people on this site. I talking about people I encounter in the real world). I'm judged by many people for having an open adoption. Many people think this is crazy. I'm judged by white people for adopting a black child. I've been told that I shouldn't adopt if I can have my own children. Just recently I was judged by a black person for adopting a black child. This topped it all off. It really made me mad. They treat me like I'm trying to be "black" by adopting, or that I'm trying to fit into their culture. I've always been drawn to people of different cultures. My husband is middle eastern. It doesn't mean I'm trying to be something I'm not. I'm just me. When will all the judging stop?
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