Sometimes I think i'm bisexual but I just can't accept it! Motivation?

Question

Well all my life i've been told to like boys and I do. Now I just see girls as VERY attractive people. I go on p**n sites and it really turns me on and makes me happy but at the same time I just can't accept myself. I'm 13.. My family goes to a church that hates homosexuals. My dad is a major homophobe. It just really scares and me and i'm afraid to come out of the closet but I just feel like i've been born liking girls and they're just so niice looking =D But I still feel wrong and I can't accept myself. Any advice?

Answer 1

until you have more experiences , you may feel some conflicts . eventually you realize that the moralistic types are miserably unhappy , and jealous of those - g*y and straight - who have satisfying s*x lives .  

Answer 2

This of it this way...if being g*y is wrong, why did God make you like that? I'm sure this won't win best answer, but it's something to think about.

Answer 3

I know how you feel. Like if your on p**n and you go to be funny and you go on lez and your like ew but you really do enjoy it. It makes you wanna do sumthing. Lol Talk to me

Answer 4

I would take some more time to get to know yourself and learn to accept yourself before you feel like you have to come out.  If you're still questioning and your parents react badly they might scare you back into the closet when you'll really be much happier out of it.  In my reading of the Bible I realized that Jesus doesn't talk about condemning people, only about loving people.  He never says that g*y people are evil.  Paul writes about homosexuality being a sin, but he also says that women talking in church and going with their heads uncovered is a sin, so who really believes he was speaking the exact words of God?  He says that homosexuality is unnatural but he also says that men with long hair is unnatural as well as women with short hair.  Does God really care about your hair cut?  Paul was a man who wrote about what people thought were right and wrong back 2000 years ago, and in his time the Romans had homosexual prostitution and orgies and Jewish people didn't to show that they were different from the Romans.  Just think about other things people believed thousands of years ago - that bathing got you sick, the earth was flat, that leaches could pull bad spirits out of you... we don't believe all that anymore, and we don't have to believe that homosexuality is bad either.

Answer 5

Your not wrong. No one accepts themselves at first. But you will after a while.

My parents hated homosexuals at first. But since I came out at 14, they are gradually becoming for accepting. We just don't talk about it. Sometimes I wish they would talk about it with me =/ .

But it is okay. You did nothing wrong. Someday you may find a beautiful girlfriend. You will be out of the house, and whether your family wants to accept it or not, you will be a homosexual, or possibly a bisexual, if you continue to have an attraction towards males also.

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Hope I helped you out.