Sometimes we hear my neighbors having s*x next door! how to address this?

Question

at night, when i'm trying to sleep, i hear my neighbors on the other side of my wall having s*x. im not sure how to confront them on this because the husband is the property manager! i have told my roommate, but it doesn't bother her cuz her room is on the other side of the apartment. what should i say? is it appropriate to call the police in this situation?

Answer 1

I have to laugh because I'm in that same situation. Do they know your husband is the property manager? Someone that works for the conplex should be able to address it by leaving a notice about noise disturbance or something of that nature, that is if you want to be discreet and hope they think it's another neighbor that complained. I sometimes like to beat on the wall when the people next door are loud :) That's one sure way of letting them know you can hear them!

Answer 2

You can't complain about it. Either suck it up or move.

Answer 3

You can't call the police as it's not illegal. I wouldn't confront him either. I think your only options are earplugs or making some hint to the wife in the laundry room if you see her. Sorry!

Answer 4

jsy tell him how it bothers u and if he can stop.

or just ignore it and get ear plugs.

hope this helped

Answer 5

No you shouldnt call the police and confronting them is ridiculous next time they are having there obsenely loud s*x endeavors grab your husband and get to it and out do them  

Answer 6

Go to them and say, "since I have to listen to you guys have s*x all the time, can I at least watch?"  They will either do one of two things:

They will be embarrassed realizing that you can hear them and do something to prevent it.....or they will say, "sure, you can watch!"  In either case, you win.  h**l, if they let you watch maybe they'll even ask you to join in.

Answer 7

Earplugs. I had the exact same problem in a previous apartment with my neighbors orgies. If you complain, they will tell you they can't do anything. At least yours are married. My neighbor was all kinky.