Son is two and I no longer want to raise him?

Question

I am the mother of a two year old - from the day he was born i didnt want to raise him but my boyfriend did. i am 23 now and he is 33. i want to have my life back i hate raising a child. and now he's in the terrible twos and i dont want him. i never have and it just gets harder and harder. i cant see my future raising him being very good.

i dont want anyone to tell me i shouldnt have had him - just advise for now.

i am scared, but i think its the right choice but im not sure - what should i do?

Answer 1

you cant just give away a 2 yr old.

i suggest you speak to your boyfriend/babies father and decide between you whats is best. maybe your/his parents may HELP look after him. you cant just walk out his life,because you wanna go out more.

Answer 2

okay, for one thing there is a new ******* invention its called a d**n condom! this really pisses me off because having a child is a commitment! your supposed to love and cherish that little guy forever! you make me sick! if you want to get pregnant and not want your kid, i have a very good suggestion for you. KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED!

Answer 3

you have no idea how selfish that is. I think you need to speak to a professional and tell them excetly how you are feeling, you may be suffering with postnatal depression etc, if it is just pure selfisness, you need your head checking! you have a beautiful, healthy 2 year old son, you created him! you are his mother.

Answer 4

You're a horrible person. Children are a blessing from god but you're too selfish to realize that. You say that you want your life back, well guess what, he is your life now. He didn't ask to be created, either man up and take care of him properly or adopt out, because some people would love and cherish this child, which is exactly what he deserves, and you're not giving it to him.

Answer 5

well honestly i have to say i think it is sorry and selfish of you but if u dont want that innocent child (just being a child) then i'd say give all ur rights to the boys father.  it seems to me that is what is best for the child anyway.