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Soooo, what now??????

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A while ago I met a girl that I completely fell for from the moment our eyes met. I thought it was a phase and it would pass. As the months rolled by, we became closer and closer, and eventually "best friends". The only thing was that these feelings I felt towards her never seemed to go away. Eventually, I reached the point where I had to confess. I said I was "bi" even though I only feel this way towards her. After that we slowly took more and more steps, she told me she was bi too, then I said I had feelings for her and she confessed to having feelings for me as well. Then we started to get more "physical" with each other, just holding hands and other flirting ways of touching each other. We both said we wanted the other, but when the time came for it, I couldn't do it. I love her, and being next to her and around her but when it came to the sexual aspect, I just couldn't. It was even anything that far either, just hooking up. And the other weird thing is that I'm not a prude, not by far. I'm not even a virgin. It's just really confusing. I love her and I want to be with her all the time, but why when it came down to the moment I couldn't? Any help is appreciated. Thanks.

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  1. Not sure about this one. I said take your time and let things work it's way out. if you are to  be together them you will.


  2. i think because you don't think its right but you love her..

  3. well it sounds normal- you just arent ready for that next step. It is a big step. If it doesnt feel right, don't force it. Just let it happen naturally. Also how old are you? It also sounds like you are just experimental and not totally sure that you are bi. I say just trust your instincts. If/when the time is right, it will happen.

  4. She can be a soulmate and beloved best friend without being a s*x partner.

    I don't think your great love for her precludes your being g*y.

  5. Stay in the playing field.

    The time will come when you will realize who you really want.

    And if it's a guy, then being best friends WILL pay off in the long run even if you don't want her.

  6. Sounds like a closet g*y boy with a really cool young lady friend to me.

    But what do I know. I came out of the closet so long ago the hinges have rusted shut behind me.

    LOL!

    You'll figure it out my young friend.

    Until then, best of luck :)
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