Sorta personal but I'm wondering about this?

Question

okay so i, uhm, fingered my self earlier today.

and i actually went in for the first time.

and now it really hurts. idk why.

there's no blood so i didn't pop my cherry unless that can happen without blood.

but its a weird like sorta indescribable aching pain.

what could be the reason behind tht

Answer 1

well you probably weren't wet enough yet, if your wet it will just slip in and if you aren't wet omfg it kills

Answer 2

Um, you can pop your cherry without there being blood.

And you shouldn't post this stuff on the internet. Why don't you ask your parents about it. It's normal to m********e, ya know. I don't think they would b mad or anything. Just hormones.

-Maddy<33

Answer 3

troll, go watch some tv

Answer 4

if you don't use tampons or anything its probably just because your body isn't used to "foreign" objects, or it might just be a little bit of dirt or something, if you don't feel better in a few days you should probably get checked out by a doctor

Answer 5

you lossened up a litle

or you could have just hurt a nerve or maybe scratched somethin and bacteria got into it  

Answer 6

Its possible you may have scratched yourself with your fingernails.

Were your hands clean before you did this?  You can give yourself an infection if you play with dirty hands.  Make sure you are clean under your finger nails even.

Answer 7

You might've ripped your hymen, although blood is usually involved.

Your body is probably just not used to foreign objects inside of it, and is sore.

Answer 8

it can happen without blood but most likely you where just tight and or are tight, or you didnt get wet enough before you went in cuz if your not wet it can hurt like **** give it time it'll go away nothing to worry about.

Answer 9

u need petroleum jelly for starters. lol then you went either to far deep and you keep on hitting and organ or something. lol but next time make sure you fingers are nice and wet. and do you use tampons? if you don't that's prob. yy it seems so uncomfortable. but keep doin it with

Vaseline and u will be fine..

Answer 10

it can happen without blood

Answer 11

I'm not an expert mind you, but yes, you can break your hymen without any blood.  However, what you are describing sounds more like you stretched/stressed your  hymen, which can feel like somebody punched you in the stomach, and ache about as long.  If it bothers you. you can always make an appointment with your OB/GYN or MD, and have your hymen gently cut so hat you won't have as much discomfort for solo time, and later on when you have your first.  My MD offered to do it for me before Chad and I have our first time for my comfort (I'm kinda tiny).  

Answer 12

seldom if ever does what you did, I cannot even describe it, make you lose your virginity.  You hurt yourself because you did not know what you were doing and were too rough.  Don't do it anymore. for a long long time .  

Sounds like you tried to force something to happen you were not ready for physically.  

Answer 13

You have a lot of nerves down there.  Make sure your hands were clean.  You don't want infection.  If you are still hurting in a couple days, go to the dr.  You can just go in for a physical and they will be able to tell you if everything is normal.