Sperm falling out of women after s*x?

Question

My wife and I haven't been trying to conceive for long, but I thought I'd ask this anyway.

Each time after I climax (I try to make it a point of me being on top when this happens), we'll lie in those same positions for a minute or two, and then get up.

When my wife gets up, all of my liquid starts to ooze out, so she'll go sit on the toilet so it doesn't get all over the place.

Am I wrong in thinking this is lessening our chances? Or are there so many sperm that is shouldn't make a difference?

Answer 1

That is normal. They are strong little things they can get where they need to be very quickly. All it takes is one and not all of it comes back out of her. Good Luck!

Answer 2

If you are really trying then here is how you can get her to become pregnant

make sure she is approaching or nearing ovulation.  

Have her lifted up with a pillow underneath her bottom (of course with a towel incase of anything may drip out)

Have her lay there for about 20 minutes-30.  

Also what may help is to have her (with a toy or another source) bring her to a climax after you have climaxed in her because the contractions of her cervix and uterus pumps the sperm inside and makes their trip less acidic.

Answer 3

im not cerain but ive heard alot of times that a woman should have her hips up and lay there for 15 mins. your best bet would be to try and put a towel underneather her and after you do your business have her put a rolled up towel or pillow under her hips so that she can have all of gravities help. im not sure the chances of this working but hey..its worth a shot right? : ] good luck! wishing you all the best!  

Answer 4

They say that you should remain lying on your back with your hips under a pillow to elevate things for about 15 or so minutes if you want to increase your chances of becoming pregnant.  I don't know how true this is.  I usually do it since there is no harm in it.  

Don't worry too much about s***n spilling out after s*x.  It happens to everyone.  Even though some may come out, many of your little guys are still in there swimming for the goal.  Good luck.  baby Dust to you!

Answer 5

there are so many sperm it shouldnt make a diffrence. im a female and i feel like the sperm falls out but its all in the mind. trust me those little swimmers are in there

Answer 6

Yes! it is lessening your chances in a very big way.  She should stay in the bed for 15-30 mins and even put a pillow under her hips or better yet put her feet up on the wall.  Me and my husband are also trying to conceive and have researched alot on line. To keep sheets clean, she should put a towel underneath her. I wish you the best!

Answer 7

tell her to not get up to lay in bed with a pillow under her bum for 30 minutes after s*x but im sure some stays in you climax a ton of lil guys its normal when some comes out

Answer 8

It only takes one but there are so many steps to conceiving and so many things that can go wrong.  So why not up the chances.  

She needs to stay laying down for at least 10 mins but 20 mins. is ideal to maximize your chances.  A minute or two isn't enough time to allow sperm to travel up into the cervix.

Answer 9

It may not lessen your chances, but you can certainly increase them. After s*x you should prop a pillow under her hips and butt with her knees bent, so her hips remain elevated. That will help keeps everything in. Also if you can do it right before you go to sleep tell her not to get up - just to go right to sleep. Then it will stay in her over night. Good Luck!