Spoiled children trouble!!!!! please help!!!!!!!?

Question

i have a little brother. and he is very spoiled. he gets everything he wants by crying and stomping his feet. he gets very moody when he has to share my video game with my two younger siblings. he will sometimes cry for hours on end until he get what he wants.

but scence i'm his brother i can't disipline him. i am 16 years old. and he is 8 years old. but he acts worse than my 5 year old, heck he acts worse than a 2 year old. my mom and my dad had a divorce last year. but i know thats not it.

i live with my mother. and she has me give him everything he wants and dosnt disipline them at all. when i told her to disipline them she told me she dosnt and spoils them because she dosnt want to hear them cry.

i want to disipline them and think i have the right because i was literally confined in the living room scence the age of 11 forced to watch after my parnets chilren all day long. my moms home all day and dosnt watch the children. and my dad goes to work but when he comes home it is still my job to watch the children.

i cant go to my friends house. i have no friends. i cant go out of the house or even go upstairs to my older brothers room to play. i'm forced to watch the kids.

they are 2 boys and one girl and i watched them, changed all of their diapers, and makde sure they didnt hurt themselves. failure to do these things are my fault, not the parents who gave birth to them?????? thats just bolonie. i still have to watch these children, but i cant disipline them.

am i able to disipling them if i changed their diapers, looked after them, washed them, and now that i live with my mom, feed them, water them, and make sure they play outside?????

oh and i dont get paid for this. i feel like a prisoner in my own house, and a mother of 3 because the real parents are neglecting them.

Answer 1

tell your mom. be mad.

Answer 2

alot of kids are acting like that now a days!try to cope with them!if he won't thne tell your parents!it always works when a kid who places with me throws a fit.....i try to cope then if it won't work let other peeps who r helping help and wen there pooped....tell adults.

Answer 3

It sounds like your parents are the ones who need a smack in the face, not your siblings.

Answer 4

Yes, by all means, give them the discipline they need. But you must do it with love, or else you really have no right. They'll be grateful - children need to know what the limits are. Without limits they feel that no one cares about them and it makes them more spiteful and destructive.

I mean, what's your mom gonna do - take them away from you? haha.

Answer 5

if she kicks you out then i think that would be doing you a favor. you can still finish high school and get a decent job and apply for scholarships while going to college. if that isnt what you want then you are 16 and you can move out when your 18 as long as you as still enrolled in high school and the cops cant bring you home.

thats what i would be waiting for. or you could place an anomynous call to CPS and get them involved, worst case is they make your parents take parenting classes.

good luck