Stalker following me to sleepaway camp....help me please?

Question

My camp friend one day was showing some of her friends pics of her camp friends on, and this kid at her school saw my pic by accident. This was in March btw. He's obsessed with 'hot girls' and once he saw my pic, apparently I'm like the hottest girls he's ever seen and he became OBSESSED with me. He started IMing me bc he harrassed my friend for my sn, and she didnt know then that he was this bad, and I wasn't nice to him or anything but I wasn't mean either on IM. but he stopped IMing me after a while luckily, but apparetnly he's still obsessed. My camp friend told me he like really creepy and stalks a LOT of girls at his school and is VERY obsessive.

So today she tells me that he says he's coming to camp, and sent me the convo they had on IM, and he knows the name of the camp and he said the dates right that he was going (same as us) WHAT DO I DO!??!!

Ps she said he has a HUGE lying problem and so now shes not concerned about it, but do you think he'll really come? help me

Answer 1

if he ever shows up in person-kick him in the sac & slap a restraining order on him!

Answer 2

holy get over yourself!!!!!!!!!  and try to grow up to atleast somewhere near your age

Answer 3

get someone to beat him down UFC style

Answer 4

you need to tell your parents whats going on or just don't let him see you and if he mess with you tell the camp director.

Answer 5

why dont you shove him away before he gets close to you....like threaten him

Answer 6

Tell your parents.  If the person is above I think 4th grade then  they could get in serious trouble for stalking you.  Same thing happened to me (except it didn't get that bad) and the boy almost got expelled and the person said the next time he did that he would get a citation(basically a ticket).  So tell your parents before it gets too far.

Answer 7

tell ur parents, this sounds creepy

Answer 8

Tell your parents, tell his parents and carry pepper spray or mace with you just in case.  If he won't leave you alone and threatens you kick him in the balls and pepper spray his eyes and run.

Answer 9

tell your parents or call the police, stalking threats with evidence to back them up are taken seriously

Answer 10

you should go either way

he might be obsessed with you but he's not gonna actually do anything but follow you around

just be really bitchy to him and he'll get the hint

Answer 11

Tell him if he doesn't back off you're going to report it to the state police,that will scare him.If he still doesn't stop,then do it,report it.

Answer 12

I'm 12 and some guyed stalked me on my phone.  I know everone says this but tell your parents IT WORKS!  If your at camp and he still stalks you feel free to tell a counsler even if one or all of them doesn't believe you go to the owner, manager, director anyone.  This guy needs help and he shouldn't be following you.  BTW the guy stalking me stopped after having alittle chat with my dad.

Answer 13

OK, kiddo -- this is out of your hands. It's time to bring in the big guns. This is seriously creepy, and if I were your mom, the red flags would be flying, hard.

Tell your mom and dad what has happened. Your mom or dad can contact the camp and see if this person is scheduled to attend camp at the same session you are.  If so, then they need to talk to the camp directors and explain that this boy has been harrassing you, and see what can be done to protect you.  You or he may have to be moved to a different session.  If you've been there before and this is a session you particularly wanted, then perhaps he can be moved to a different session.  If necessary, your parents can take out a restraining order on this young man and forbid him from contacting you or coming near you, or even forbid him from attending the camp.

Another alternative would be to have your father call this young man and tell him, in no uncertain terms, that if he comes near you or tries to contact you, he will be arrested for harrassment and stalking.  Or he could ask to see the young man with his parents, and explain the rules of life to them -- i.e., he doesn't like what's been going on, and he's to stay away from you.

This is a kind of bullying, and there's no reason why you should have to put up with it.  Most bullies will fold when confronted with a stronger force -- like a pissed-off dad.