Starting to shave at 15?

Question

Well i've got alot of hair on my upper lip and lower, the chins alright not much there but still very very VERY noticeable!

And i have hair on my cheeks too! and its not "bum fluff" because its black! its only noticeable up close but still how can i get rid of it!?!?!?!

I'm 15 and i already asked my mum and she said "NO!, your too young!" but i hate it sooo much, my girlfriend said i'd look like a totally different person with out it, and way better than now!

Also any tips on shaving since i might considering doing it(besides use a razor and shaving cream)?

and i dont want to ask my dad that would just be awkward! i dont really have a relationship with my dad when i can talk to him about anything.

And of course my mums like "it will end up growing faster", im sick of it! Why won't she let me shavee?!!

Heaps of people in year shave and they're my age!

Help?!

Answer 1

Just go to the drug store by yourself and get a razor and shaving cream and just do it.  Just tell your mom (if she finds out your shaving) "I'm getting older and I just want to look more clean cut.  "  She'll understand.  And just hide it in your bathroom if you don't want her to know. :)

But I don't understand why your mom would say no to a 15 year old guy.  I mean...isn't that the time when you guys start shaving?  Good luck!!

Answer 2

Why is your mom in charge of your bodily functions?

shave!

Answer 3

Parents don't like seeing their children grow up and days like these kids are growing up way to fast but just do it and she might be a bit upset but then she will realize that her "baby" is actually growing up.

1: Forget everything you know! Lots of lather does not equal a good shave. Foam sitting on top your skin does nothing so move on!

2: Don’t shave as soon as you get up. Have breakfast first. Give your skin a chance to wake up!

3: Ideally, shave in the shower or bath as the steamy environment will help to soften the bristles, making shaving easier. On average it takes 3.5 minutes for stubble to 'wet out' properly making them easier to shave. If you prefer the old fashioned water in a bowl method, ensure you wash your face first with hot water to ensure those bristles are soft.

4: Spend time preparing your skin. Use a deep cleansing non-soapy face wash (K1ST or ASC Face Wash) and alternate twice a week with a scrub (KXF or ASC Face Scrub). Spend a little time massaging your chosen shaving preparation into your face as this again will help to soften and lift the bristles. Water that is 48F or hotter actualy kills spot causing bacteria.

5: Ensure you have a clean sharp blade and shave using short strokes. It’s key to shave in the direction of your hairs' growth – generally speaking this is down on the cheeks and chin and upwards on the neck. If you are at all unsure, run your finger across your stubble to see which direction the hair is growing. Shaving against the direction of hair growth is the primary cause of razor burn, redness and rashes.

6: Rinse the blade regularly as you shave and don’t press to hard against the skin.

7: If using a shaving gel or foam, rinse your face thoroughly with cool water and pat dry (don't rub). If using a King of Shaves shaving oil, simply pat your face dry.

8: Apply a post shave product  (Moisturizer) to leave your skin feeling smooth, supple and soft - not tight and dry!

9: Et voila! You have completed the perfect shave!

Good luck and take care

Answer 4

i started shaving when i was 14.

Answer 5

It's your body, isn't it? It's not like you're telling her:'mom, I want to get a tattoo', you want to do something loads of guys your age do, simply because it needs to be done. So, without disrespect to your mom - ignore her this time. Get a razor, and do it.

Anyway, if your mom sees you doing it, chances are she'll be okay with it anyway, she probably just doesn't want you to ' grow up so fast' ;)

It's a pity you can't talk to your dad about it, he would support you on this, for sure. Maybe, after your first shave, you could ask him something simple like: 'which direction is the best: up or down'  and give him a chance to give some fatherly advise? Even though your relationship with him is not that great, I am sure you'd do him a favor by it.

As for the shaving itself: I usually shave in just about any direction that will get the job done. Do be careful with the blades, it's easy to cut yourself: make sure you pull the skin tight and be careful around acne. There are razors with 'safety' measures (e..g wilkinson) that make it harder to cut yourself. They are more expensive though, so when you get the hang of it, you could switch.

By the way, they keep 'improving'  razors by adding more blades, etc, but that's all bullshit. It's a competitive market and the only way to increase market share is to improve the product, even if it is already fine: if you can make customers think 5 blades is better, you'll sell more. But any two-blade razor works fine, and the blades are a lot cheaper.

You could go for an electric razor, but I found that to be pretty rough on my skin. In any case, if you have a couple of day's growth, don't use an electric razor, it will hurt.

Finally, it helps to have some kind of aftershave balm to prevent the skin from becoming too dry afterwards.

Answer 6

Man....I feel for you.

I'm a 13 year old girl and my parents also hate me shaving.

I live in Australia, and over here it is a school rule for boys to be "clean-shaven"

tell your mum that and see what she says.

It is your body, your choice.

I mean it's not a risky thing to do so why is your mum so angry?

Do it!! :)

Good luck.

Just get a razor and shaving cream from a drug store and you're right to go.

Answer 7

When my son was 15, I made him shave! He is hairy too and is now 16 and can grow a full beard. I'm sure your school will make you shave it off and then you Mom will have to let you. You are her baby and she does not want you to grow up.

Answer 8

Ok, at 15 you should be allowed to shave!  My mom gave my brother a shaving kit in his Christmas stocking and he is 15!

Tell your mother reasons why you feel you need to shave, and show her that you are responsible and mature, which might change her mind on the "too young thing."

I'm sorry but I can't give you tips on how to shave because I'm a 13-year old girl.

But I still hope I helped!

Answer 9

Hah, I feel ya man.  I had a TON of Mustache hair when I was 12 and always got remarks. My mom didn't want me to shave either.

Well, the way it happen with me was...my mom finally understood that I was growing and was becoming a man.  One day I just decided to, and after, she really didn't complain because I looked pretty good! YOU and only YOU are in control of your body and image. Shaving wouldn't hurt at all! It would give you a cleaner complexion, and shaving isn't bad at all compared to these people who get crazy piercings  and crazy hairdos!  Maybe you need to give your mom inspiration like this.

Sure, the hair grows back, but that is a fact of life. Otherwise it will collect and bunch up.

For shaving, all you really need is a razor and shaving cream. Aftershave could be helpful.  Just remember to shave accurately and don't shake your hand around and cut yourself!