Stay, wait or go and look for him?

Question

ok, well my husband and I are having a lot of problems. He took my car and left me for about 3 days. I went to go and look for him and found him at his friend house. I ask him to come home but he told me no, and he told me that he don't wanna be with me anymore. Because I never change and never listen to him. Then he told his parents that he was gonna come home like yesterday or today. But he is not back yet. So what should I do? Should I go and look for him and ask him to forgive me for the last time and tell him how I feel and how much I regret not being the person for him. I mean I love him so much and I know that life will be hard to live without him. But at this point he don't want me anymore. I not so sure but that what he told me. So should I go look and try to talk or should I just stay home and wait for him to come home and tell him or should I just let go?

Answer 1

let him go. dont u have any self respect? he doesnt luv u. open ur eyes.

Answer 2

You should get your car firts.

Then pack up his stuff.

He left you.  No, no no don't justify it. He walked out the door and left.

You made an admirable effort by going over and asking him to come back. He did not appreciate your endeavors and said, NO

You want/ need a guy who wont bail out when things are rough.

Let him go.

Answer 3

get your dang car and throw his stuff in the yard. Change locks too.

Answer 4

It's you who must decide:

If you think the fault is on your side, apologize.

If you think it's his then just leave him walk off.

Answer 5

Honestly, it doesn't sound like he wants to work anything out with you right now.  Give it a couple days, see if things cool down.  Then maybe try talking to him.

Answer 6

Should I stay or should I go?

Question only you can answer for yourself.  What led to the breakup and what are the reasons that things are so bad now...  Do you really want him back...

Only you can answer that and there is to much information that is missing from this question that would give an outside strangers opinion on the circumstances at hand.  Things like what reasons would you argue your case for wanting to stay with your husband and what are the reasons that these reasons for him leaving have built up to this point.

Men will use very vague statements to present their case for a breakup such as what you have mentioned like never changing never listening and vice versa goes for women as well.  Many things lead up to the boiling point of a breakup.  Only you can answer the question of if it's worth it or not to try and get him back

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Answer 7

Just pack his stuff.  Talk to him and see if he wants to make an effort to make the marriage work, if he does not, then put on your game face and do what you have to do, live your life without him.  If he wants to try to work things out, suggest counseling.