Std? im lost?

Question

i heard that gonorreha is spreding through my school majorly and two schools near by aswell but mainly ours. at the moment i am teriffied because i am the typical teen who makes her mistakes, and i made the same mistake three times. anyways i have given head three times (to all different guys) all of which i didnt use a condom, two times were because i was a little drunk(also a mistake) and one was because i really liked this guy. so i guess my question is how do i know if i have it? also what do i do?

please dont call me any names because i already know what i have done wrong and am very upset about it but if you choose to so be it i just need answers

i will be a freshman this coming year and i am 14

the boys were 14, 15, 16

Answer 1

most times you dont get symptoms first and for most.

and

if you have this fora long time un treated it only get worse for yo.

you need to look on the computer and find a free clinic or something that doesnt cost to much.

Answer 2

WOW, well you could go to a a place where they give pregnancy test and std test and they cant tell your parents and if it is + then you have to tell your parents so they can take you to a real dr.

Answer 3

Visit a doctor or clinic. Some provide free STD testing, and others you pay fee, or they contact your parents and stuff. Most importantly if I were you, I would be more concerned about if you have passed the diseases to the other guys in which they have given you.

Answer 4

Call one of the testing centers that are around town.  They do drug tests and blood tests for companies, but they can also do a test for various STDs.  

Or, just go to your doctor and tell him this is confidential, but you think you need to be check for an STD.  He can't tell your parents.  Pay cash for the visit, so it doesn't get on your parent's insurance.

Answer 5

Go to the Doctor...and quit haveing sexual relations

Answer 6

go to a clinic and they can test you, and even if you did wrong you are maturing by admitting your mistakes and trying to fix them. next time you do something sexual, please use protection.

Answer 7

gross at 14 you gave 3 different boys oral s*x, thats disgusting, sorry but it is. Do your parents know? They should, you need to go get tested, why do kids think its OK to give and receive oral s*x at such a young age, no you wont get pregnant, but look whats going on, oral s*x still leads to stds, you can have gonorrhea with no symptoms, and you can get tested right now and nothing will show up, it can take up to six months or more to show up....USE PROTECTION, and dont give oral to everyone, YOU DO NOT HAVE TO BE A PATIENT TO BE SEEN AT PLANNED PARENTHOOD!!!!! When I had no insurance thats where I went to get on birth control, so thats bs

Answer 8

I think gonorreaha is curable dude look it up.

Answer 9

go to planned parenthood or an std clinic

Answer 10

First of all, don't freak out.

Second, learn a little:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gonorrhea

Third, be more careful next time.

Fourth, don't feel bad.  Learn from what you've done.

I hope this helps.

I suppose you could use a friend (much older friend) who could explain all these things in plain, no-nonsense terms.

Unfortunately, those are hard to find.

So use the Internet for now.  There are also a lot of books about sexuality that you might want to read.  If you're going to do it, you might as well learn something about it.

You could be exposing yourself to something more serious than Gono.  So please, LEARN a little.

And also... don't think your mom won't help you.  She was your age once, and understand your urges.

Maybe an older mentor could help you out too.

Good luck.

Answer 11

d**n always use a condom. my girlfriend never forgets to keep one in her purse. btw im 14 also. and y the f*ck are u getting drunk. to me alcohol tastes bad.

Answer 12

omg!

u need to see a doctor, hun, so u know ferr sure!!

(no body should be callin u names, i mean it! all the girls in my class have had s*x. no worries.)

Answer 13

EWWWWWW are you that easy?

Answer 14

(STD Sexually Transmitted Disease)  U should go to PLANNED PARENTHOOD they will help with any questions dat u have and juss hope dat u do learn from ur mistakes ur soo young and ur better then dat

Answer 15

you all need to stop being mean to her, she makes mistakes just like us.  You all think giving oral to 3 different guys is bad I got pregnant at 13 and i gave oral and a bunch of other things.  They are mistakes but she learned from them.  

well i would just say go to the doctor and get tested.  You can take your sister it don't have to be your mom.    Good luck and don't let these other people who are mean get on your nerves and don't get sad that they are mean, that is their problem.

Hope i helped!!  :)

Answer 16

http://www.epigee.org/health/gonorrhea_s...

You should seriously get tested! In case you have it you can get treatments before it gets too serious. And I really hope you did learn from your mistakes, good luck in the future and think before you act, for sure

Answer 17

Take a test, honey!! No offence, but what you did wasn't that smart,BUT....you seem like you're maturing cuz at least u know what you did was a mistake and u want to be safe now =) Go to the doctor's, they have anonymous tests, it's all confidencial, and the sooner u get tested the better!! Now PLEASE be careful and don't make those mistakes again!

   Good luck

EDIT: I think you can go yourself, or with your sister....it doesn't have to be only with your mom

Answer 18

Well honestly, if you wouldn't of done it, then you wouldn't have to worry.

And that's nasty. 3 different guys and you're 14?

Go to a clinic and get tested.