of course this needs to be talked out with my soon to be but I was appalled when I heard it I couldn't even say anything else...heres the deal.
My guy has a 5 yr old daughter...who lives with her mom. Her and I have a fantastic relationship--they both actually got down on one knee and asked if I would marry them...but he wants her to be standing there, like holding our hands i guess, when we marry. She is our flower girl but I think she should stand by her uncle who is the groomsman as the ring boy, my nephew will stand by his mom my bridesmaid. I understand it is important for him to know and me to know that I am marrying them both but i have no intentions of looking into her eyes telling her 'til death do us part' I could not believe it when I heard him saying this...what should I do and how should I tell him I don't want her to be that into our ceremony??? am I being ridiculous??? this is my first marriage and obviously his second--he didnt have a wedding for the first.
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