Step-families problems....?

Question

What are the possible factors which may complicate life in a step-family, and the ways in which such situations might be eased?

It's a homework i got few points but i need more ideas and answers...

Any help appreciated.

Thank You :D

Answer 1

Wow, I am in that situation right now. I have 2 kids and my new husband has 2 kids so it's been very difficult! The hardest part is the kids. They fight and try to compete for attention from us. My kids are used to doing chores and his kids have never done them. He thinks I favor my kids, I think he favors his. He has a crazy ex wife that we have to deal with. She doesn't help with his kids at all. She just spends time with them when it's convienant for her. We have 2 bathrooms and 6 people trying to take showers and get ready at the same time, always stressful! Alot of things really but I would have to say its the adjusting to new siblings, new adults, your mom or dad with someone new, learning to share things more or do without. It's so tough but well worth it.

Answer 2

I think the whole step-family life is complicated. I have a stepdaughter that is 15 who mainly lives with her mom. I know a lot of bad-mouthing goes on in that house about me. It is a constant battle with the kid because of her poor attitude. She gets everything she wants and her mom is more like her best friend. Her mother should try to get along with me. I have tried but it's a never ending story. People should let their children think for themselves when they are put into situations like this, NOT brainwash them.