I have four kids from a previous marriage. Their biological father has not seen them since 2004 (he was very abusive to me and when he started on the kids I left). He does not pay child support, medicial and now three of the kids have to go see a therapist to deal with the abuse that they saw by this man. They call my husband "dad" and he is the one that has been there for them in all ways possible, he feeds, clothes and is a positive roll model for them. My husband wants to adopt them because he feels that is he there dad while my ex has done nothing for them and my kids hate him. I want to start the adoption process but I am so scared that if we do this and they find out where my ex is, then he is going to start all kindof trouble. He once told the judge that unless I came back to him then he was going to have nothing to do with the kids. Also I just found out that he has 4 other kids and does not pay child support on them and had has not seen them in 10 years. Please help!!!
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