Long story short, we aren't married but breakup is not an option. We've been together for years. The bio-mom is letting up and his daughter (8) stays with us more. It's been great until recently. We have different parenting styles and I try hard to butt out on discipline and be her friend. I like her, don't get me wrong. But keeping my mouth shut bothers me. then the b/f chose to sleep in the room with her versus me. I don't know why that bothers me so much but it does. I think that is the only time we have together as normal time and I'm kind of hurt by it but, then again, I can understand he wanting to be close to her since it is limited visiting. But I also feel like it's often the two of them versus me. She agrees with everything daddy says and if he disagrees with me there's no winning. I feel if he slept in my bed, we'd be showing that we are a team, the three of us, not them two against me. Am I being crazy or should he sleep with me?
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