A little background:
I am not close with my step siblings, in fact I hardly know them. We didn't grow up together, as our parents married when we were all nearly adults. We're all grown with families of our own now.
My mom has always pushed the "We're family, and we love each other" mantra. Except....in my mind we aren't family. My mom married their dad, end of story.
The Question:
Their mother is dying of cancer. Today she was given 1 week to live. My mom has emailed my biological brother and myself requesting we send our step-siblings words of prayer and support. I don't like being told I must do this for strangers I normally wouldn't even talk to.
I'm trying to put my uncomfortable feelings aside and think of the RIGHT thing to do, but I can't. I barely know these people. Should I not be so stubborn, and do what my mother has asked, or is it ok to just ignore her request?
Thanks for any insight!
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