Stepmother should get used to undress in front of new pre teen stepson?

Question

I`married very recently. I have a nine year old son and now I also have a ten year old stepson who lives with me and my husband, his father. I`ve always get along well with my stepson and continue to do so. I never had any problem undressing to my underwear and be topless in front of my son and my stepson mother also used to do it. My stepson already entered my room when I was undressing, to talk to my son who was in there talking to me. I don´t want to treat the boys differently, and I know my stepson´s mother used to undress to her underwear in front of him, so I continued to undress to my underwear and took out my bra. I didn´t tell him to leave as my son was not leaving either but I was somewhat embarrassed because I´m not used to undress to just my panties in front of him. What would you do in this situation? Undress in front of the son but not in front of the stepson? Or just get used to undress in front of both?

Answer 1

you shouldnt worry bout getting undress in front of your kids or the family an they shouldnt be worry or shy getting undress in front of you or the whole family there notting wrong being nude in front of anyone if we was to have clothes on use god would had clothes growing out of our skin when they wear out. so go for it

Answer 2

If they are used to it and you suddenly stop they might get impression you were feeling shame or something and start wondering.  I think you should not worry about it and begin not doing it anymore gradually

Answer 3

a when you are undress you should tell them an teach them. to have respect for other ppl nude nake ppl. an teach them bout s*x. they are of age to start learing bout s*x. it bether they learn from you. them off the street the way they learn off the street is by having s*x for real. not talking about it. an make sure you tell them bout the condoms to an just make sure you have condoms in your dresser drawer then you know one of them is having s*x. that what i did he was 10 at the time. when he was 13 or so. he was having s*x i looked in the drawer an two condoms was gone. i know if i didnt tell him. he would of  had a kid already an did tell him bout s*x at 10 an that

Answer 4

there noting worng getting undress or being nude. in front of ur family or friends did god make us with clothes on? no. did we come out of your mother? with clothes on? no so just get undress in front of the both of them down to your skin with out panties an bra are noting worng