My 13 year old son and his mother want me to allow her new husband to adopt him. Initially, I was oppossed to the idea, but after continued badgering on this issue, I think it maybe best. I live across the country. I have not been allowed to see him even though I pay child support. The judge keeps giving her another chance to send him for visitation and I can't pay my lawyer anymore. His mother won't stop putting him in the middle and making him lie despite legal warnings. Husband #5 is raising my son and financially supporting him. I have no say in anything, I am "just a child support check" according to my son. If I let this man adopt him, will my son appreciate me for sparing him the stress of the current situation?
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