Still cant get over my ex, i hate it.?

Question

I really want to get over my ex. We were together for 2 years but we broke up because I hated how he was treating me. I know that since I broke up with him I shouldn't be like this but I know that it made me feel better about myself. I wasn't crying all the time or getting angry and stressed because of his doing. But it's been over a year and I still think about him every night before I go to bed, and sometimes during the day even when I don't want too. I believe he has moved on. He has a girlfriend at the moment and they have been together for 4 months, and going on. I am happy that he is in a relationship that he is happy with. I have done everything I could possibly think of to forget about him like keeping myself busy with two jobs, hanging out with friends, going for a run, etc. I have even cut off all contact with him, and I try not to go to places where we could bump into eachother. When people talk or bring him up I always tell them not to talk about him to me. I just really want to get over it! If you've gone through this and gotten over it please help me out!

Answer 1

i remember going through the same thing

honestly idk i still loved her and well we're back together now

but see other people go to clubs w/ur friends

make urself seem available but not desperate

see other guys dont be afraid to get out there k

and dont worry about it so much you'll lose interest in him soon

most importantly find someone who will treat you w/respect

good luck

-matt ;)

Answer 2

well if he treated you badly then it shouldnt be hard, just think about the reasons why you broke up