I asked this about 3 weeks ago
"I am 28 and have not spoken to my mother in 10 years, but recently I have decided to reopen contact with her. I am open to trying to form a relationship with my mother again, but she will not stop speaking down on the relationship I have with my husband. She is constantly telling me that I am in a bad marriage that will never work.
This coming from a woman who had a violent relationship with her husband all my life. They would yell, scream, and throw stuff at each other almost every day (but they NEVER abused us kids).
I am very, very happy in my marriage. I have a very loving relationship. I cherish my husband, and I am cherished. We have a very loving domestic discipline relationship. I stay at home and take care of the house while he works (more than enough to support us).
I have tried to convince her to stop, and have expressed my displeasure... What can I say to her to make her stop?"
She is still doing it, I am at my wits end... I am trying so hard to keep an open relationship with her and to repair the damage, but she just will not stop. I am about to cut off communications with her, again. I cannot stand this belittling and nit picking she is doing. Please, does any one have any advice?
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