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Question

As some of you know, I been going through some hard times with a long term relationship. Some days I'm cool, and some days just down and out. My question is, how long did it take some of you to get over a longterm relationship? I mean, not completely get over it, but the hurt and confused feelings?

Answer 1

Depends how deep it struck you. Mine was like months, but gettting over the person takes years.

Answer 2

Time never heals its what you do with the time that helps to heal.

Answer 3

when somebody broke my heart recently..i was drunk for three days/nights to ease the pain..it didnt work much but it helped me to sleep some to forget ..i am not over him yet..i dont think i&#039;ll ever be the same..every single day i think of him and cry..still do..

Answer 4

I hope this isn&#039;t true because I&#039;m doomed( 17 years for me) but they say as long as the relationship lasted is how long the hurt lasts.

Answer 5

It is hard till such time u find another companion. But u should keep in mind that what is over is over. Try to look ahead in life and put ur interests elsewhere and do things that do&#039;nt distract ur mind

Answer 6

Lost a few lovers in my time and can generalize at about three months of mental pain, physical longing, personal doubts, anger and so forth.  Woman I broke up with one time was amused when I told her, &quot;I couldn&#039;t even get it up for two months.&quot;  So, yes, it can be bad, and in some ways some of us never forget some of the lovely times missed or times that might have been.  

I also believe it is worse for a woman.  Cannot tell you why but they seem to hurt longer and more deeply--so that be a lesson to you guys who need to be respectful/careful/caring.

Hope this helps you and others reading this as we nearly all have losses like this.  Cheers.

Answer 7

if you allow yourself to think about it, it takes a long time.

If though, you push the thought out and refuse to think of them , it can dissapear quickly.