Still worried...no period?!?

Question

I am 19 and I had unprotected s*x about 3 and 1/2 weeks ago. The week before I had not taken my birth control at all and never really take it as directed. I know stupid! I have PCOS so my period has always been irregular when I mess up my birth control. But I have had cramps for the past 2 weeks...no period. I am dizzy a lot and very tired. Could I already be experiencing prego symtoms this soon? I took a test last week but that was only 2 weeks after intercourse...was that to early to test? Because I messed up my birth control I am not completely sure when I am supposed to get my period...but it has almost been 4 week since the unprotected s*x and noooo period!? Just want some opions! Thanks

Answer 1

First of all- if you don't want to be pregnant or get STD's you should ALWAYS use protection. When guys I've dated wanted to have s*x- I've insisted they wear a condom. They usually say the same stupid thing- "I can't feel anything with one on!" to which I always reply- "You'll feel even less without one- because you won't get any!" when I don't feel like dealing with the stupid conversation above; I get unlubricated condoms or "flavored" ones. I unwrap them prior to s*x & let them warm in my hand & then I unroll them as I help him "rise" to the occasion. 9 times out of 10- after we're done; I have to let him know he might want to remove it. That's when I get the stupid question- "When did you put that on? I didn't know you did that." to which I say- "Obviously, before & I notice it didn't seem to stop you from "feeling" anything." In fact- It gives me a chance to climax since it helps him last longer! Second - go to your family doctor or a clinic; they can take a more accurate test. Then you'll know for certain. And last- most (Not all)  men don't care about the consequences of their actions and those that have been stupid enough to have unprotected s*x and wind up with a STD typically feel obligated to vengefully- spread it on to as many as they can. Be more careful from now on, pregnancy may very well become the least of your worries!