Strange behaviour? help people?

Question

This guy I like is confident,s**y,flirty..with everyone but me.When we meet in company he never makes eye contact with me,he answers my questions but never looks at me while doing it.Yet to every other and far more attractive women,he has deep professional eye contact.Thing is,he told me that he loved me a few times,but I never acted on it cause his behaviour and his standoffishness made me doubt him.We had a big fight where he gave me an ultimatum to tell him if I loved him or not.The things he said during he fight were so cruel that I chickened out and we barely spoke for a long time.Lately I have been making an effort cause I miss the guy and still love him.He responds well on a one to one and looks into my eyes,but again,if someone else is there,he will look anywhere but at me.What gives?Is he telling me in a gentle way to **** off?Or is he waiting for me to make the first move in resolving this?

Answer 1

he fancy's you, probably shy.

Answer 2

hiya blush,i can't understand girls, when they say,she is prettier than me, or she is so attractive. love is not based on looks,its based on personality.going back to your question, he sounds very shy,and lacks confidences.he is waiting for you to make the first move,as i think he feels you will say no to him if he asks you out.if you like him, then ask him out.then take it from there .xx good luck,and have loads of fun.x

Answer 3

he probably wants you to ask him , maybe he is just shy with you