Strange man troubles......help

Question

I split with a mean and spiteful man who was in and out of my life for 11 years! he was a cheater, liar and made me think that we had a future! he even raped me once and beat me so hard I flew accross the room! eventually I got the guts to walk away. I am 30 in a week! In the time he was manipulative, violent and abusive but now I have had enough!

Recently (against my better judgement) I asked him to do me a favour, however he was his usual self....did the favour or took the business cards I gave him, and then turned nasty because I wouldnt jump when he said jump! ! he then decided to tell me Im nothing and I am no one!. So I told him if it makes him feel better to disrespect me and put me down go ahead! but it says more about you than it does me!! I then decided to blank him, I get home today and the business cards of mine I gave him to give to friends have been posted back through my door in the same envelope I gave him. Is he being decent or trying to get attention? he has done something similar about 3-4 yrs ago with a b.day present I got him....help! 10 points best answer! thanks

Answer 1

I think if you walked away from this person and he's out of your life. You need to keep WALKING and DON"T LOOK BACK. No matter what he does or says, keep walking. You deserve better and you had the strength to leave and you must take care of you. He sounds like a nut case and he just wants you back to play more mind games with you. I wish you the very best in life and love. Keep your head up.

Answer 2

I am sorry but are you serious about your question?  You need our advise what to do with this loser?  You need to develop some self confidence and self respect fast, because the world is full of your ex-boy friend.  

Move on!  

Answer 3

he is acting like a child yes he wants attention but dont give it to him you should never talk to him and let go dont even make any kind of contact with him because he will use it to get to you its great u left him but now u need to get rid of him for good

Answer 4

I would be thankful to get them back and would write him off for good this time. He can't be trusted and wants to be an ugly person at times it sounds. Don't respond to him in any way! It's more of a response hear I'm not gonna do this for you! That's not a thoughtful gesture it's back in your face!