Strict parent-locked up?

Question

have any of you had a parent that was entirely too strict... when you were younger or now. I'm eighteen and my mom is strict i thought that when i got older that it would change and that i would have a little freedom. now i feel like if i dont leave the house then i would go wild. i belive that i should leave the house and find my own place because this lockdown stuff is just driving me crazy. and the thing is i know that i could make my own descisions and i know that i could stay on the right path and i do want to be sucessful. and im still a virgin waiting for marriage and aint no man slowing me down. or stoping me. what should i do? can some of you relate?

Answer 1

Yea it does happen to ALOT of girls your age often they DO move out its just all up to you if you want to waste money on rent or just deal and wait longer to get better.  

Answer 2

YES!!! i can absolutely relate..when i was 18 my mom was the same way..it was ABSOLUTELY awful until one day i decided to have the courage to take her to a lunch (just me and her) and i spoke to her telling her what i felt and giving her some examples why i feel shes wrong on what shes doing. I'm 19 turning 20 soon and since that day we have come to a mutual understanding. I do as i please as long as i make sure im making the right decision.  

Answer 3

I know this  may not help you but ill give you my two cents worth

you are eighteen and from your words you seem to be responsible.

But in the eyes of your parents you are still there little baby I know it sounds mad . But when you are turning frothy  you will  still be there baby. they will still be worrying over you then like they did when you where  five years old even more so when you get older.

when you have children of your own you will maybe understand better.

the world is a funny place you will stop been a baby but parents can never stop been parents.

But there will come a time you have to stand on your own two feet. You need to discuss it  with your parent.

Let them know what you are planning . involve them put there minds at ease. its not like you wont ever be coming back to  have your laundry done or for the odd feed now is it.

see if they let you spared your wings and go  its not like they are lousing you.

But if they stand in your way  they may just louse you

you have to explain that .

  

Answer 4

Write a letter to you Mom.

Tell her you love her and that you are grateful that she gave you discipline, etc, but that you are now an adult and deserve more freedom

Assure her of your ongoing love.

Give it to her with a bunch of flowers.

Answer 5

Yes I have been there, but since your still living under her roof, you have to take the good with the bad or leave.  If you think you can make it financially and you feel mature enough go for it, move out and make it happen.