Strip club - yea or nea ?

Question

My wife has decided she doesn't want s*x anymore. It has been about 6 months since I have even seen her naked.

I am not sure what a live nude girl looks like any more :-)

Is it time to go?

Answer 1

??? she's your wife, why not try counseling first...then strip clubs???

Answer 2

I wouldn't go if i were you.  Try talking to her.

Answer 3

Conan: Take what is rightfully yours!!!

Answer 4

Careful you might end up cheating....But your an adult. And remember to ask yourself what problems this may cause. She may get mad. Hey you never know she may want to go with you. That may get her turned on. Maybe you should try romancing your wife before you decide to look for a sexual outlet. It may be hard  and take a while but wouldn't you rather have your naked wife with whom you can (without guilt) pretty much do whatever, then pay a girl to just get naked. God knows what you may get yourself into. Well good luck. Only you know how your wife may react.  

Answer 5

Instead of going to the stripclub, why not try romancing your wife? If you still care for her, it should be easy to do. Take your time and be very patient. Give her massages that don't end in s*x. Bring her flowers and tell her how much you miss being intimate with her. Fill the tub up with  hot water and bubbles, light some candles, and tell her to relax while you take over the house stuff. Make her feel like you appreciate and care for her (not just your Mr. Stuff)

Perhaps the reason she isn't interested in s*x anymore is because all you ever do is get your own pleasure and leave her feeling unstisfied. Did you cheat and get caught (or got caught but not confronted)? Did you lie to her? Have you been neglecting or abusing her? If you are interested in saving your marriage, invest some time into finding out the reason she no longers wishes to have s*x. If you don't care about your marriage, get a divorce before going out and finding someone else.

  

Answer 6

Don’t ask us, ask her…..maybe she’ll realize s*x isn’t so bad after all.

I personally am not a fan of strip clubs. I’ve been there, done that and I’m well aware of what takes place in those back rooms. So if my husband came to me and said, “Listen hun, it’s you or a stripper, take your pick” I’d find a way to get turned on…..

Answer 7

Well, I think it would  be more productive if you could talk to her and try to put an end to that. But if that is your only option, tell her that you are thinking of going to strip clubs and see where it goes from there.

Answer 8

If you do then you don't TRULY love your wife!

Answer 9

Go. Have a good time.

Answer 10

go!

going to strip clubs is NOT cheating!!

dancers are not prostitutes, nothing sexual is going to happen. . .

I honestly think this might help prevent you from cheating in the future.

Go to the club, enjoy the female form, & get a few dances (treat the dancers with respect).

If you can get your 'fix' from the club (appreciate a woman's body, have some harmless flirting, get some attention, feel arousal), then you won't feel the need to go out & have an affair. I think the most important thing you can get out of a strip club is female attention/flirting/contact, so you don't have to go out & 'prove' yourself. . .

Go see a couple's therapist.

Relationships are always changing, & things can cycle back to the way they were with some effort.

If she refuses to go, go yourself. You'll get pointers on what to do (don't you want to start having s*x again???) Then, get her to come along with you (even if you just tell her it's a regular therapist for you)

Answer 11

c ya have a good time and take your wife with ya .. she may want to  give ya a little when you get back .. she don't have to do any of the work.. lol

Answer 12

I don't know about your case, to be honest.  I go to strip clubs with my wife and our SO.

Answer 13

So why doesn't she want to have s*x anymore?????? If the relationship is on the rocks then that could be why, but there has got to be a reason. Anyway- you could go to a strip club, but just to think that everyone touches those girl is not that interesting.....   ; P

Answer 14

you might aswell get a divorce and prawl around don't cheat on your wife.

Answer 15

I think you should take your wife with you, let her see how much fun you can have naked, let her watch as the dancers come up to you and put your face between their breast, she may enjoy it.  She may even find herself putting money in the g-strings.  You never know, some times the sexual activities of others will relight that fire.  What do you have to lose, your both sitting at home staring at the TV, go out and try to reconnect, if not with each other, then maybe you can both hook up with some others.  Good luck.

Answer 16

Naah, strip clubs are so 80's.

Time to get yourself a mistress.

Answer 17

nea! lol.  just cuz from seeing my best friend and her husband go through this it doesnt seem worth it.  my friends husband went to a strip club. and when she found out he did. it totally ruined things for her. she told me str8 up. she said after he did that to me i lost respect for him. she feels like she cant trust him.  and i totally get where shes comming from.  its like ur looking at some other chick. naked.  this is what i alwayz tell people.  how would u feel if she did that to you. and as far as ur wife not hooking u up in the bedroom. u need to talk with her about that.  and if she doesnt want to give u that anymore. thats not fair to you at all.  and u need to move on.  good luck!

Answer 18

Dont do it! lol..thats cheating...and i'm sure if your wife found out your sneaking around her back to see other women naked your gonna be in the dog house!

although i have heard of people being completely honest with their spouse and asking them if they minded them going to the strip club...so if you really wanna go, try running it by your wife first so you dont get in trouble!

Answer 19

Magazines are cheaper...and the internet is free.

Answer 20

What are you waiting for?

Answer 21

for sure.......