Strip clubs??? i hate them ?

Question

i don't want my boyfriend to go to strip clubs ?

I'm sorry but just the fact of another girls *** in my boyfriends face makes me disgusted i just dint think there should be any reason for him to go watch naked girls on poles and put there **** and asses in his face

am i wrong?

Answer 1

Well I am not sure wether I think you are wrong or just very threatened . Keep in mind that men are very visual, that kind of stimulus turns them on and it's a very self assured woman who does not feel even a little dislike for it. Try not to be so threatened by strip clubs, their policies are usually "hands off" and who does  your guy love and sleep with? YOU. Let him   have that little excitement, it really doesn't do any harm unless you  let it.

Answer 2

well you would hate them wouldnt you? you're a woman. i doubt you have any problems with male strip clubs

Answer 3

First of all guys usually don't go to a random girls a** in their face. (that's how you get pink eye LOL) anyway, i have talked to my guy about it and he says he likes to go just because of the atmosphere. they are just men free to be men. i promise they are not going to fall in love with a naked girl. guys really arnt into that. they might lust after her but men do that with any attractive girl that walks by. men just go for entertainment not to find a new girl friend. ask him if you can go with once, some guys like that. (not all the time though, its still sacred "guy" time) he will appreciate you being concerned, "slight jealousy" makes all men feel good. but if you freak out about him going then he will think you are trying to run his life. if he wants to go let him go. he will see that you trust him and he will love you more for it.

also try giving him a show at home. men LOVE the personal attention and you are the girl that he has a connection with which will turn him on even more then him might not even want to go to a strip club?

Answer 4

no!!! ur not wrong at all girl its def. disrespectful for him to got o places like that.. if hes already got a girl he shouldnt haft to go watch others danceing around naked.... and the sad part is most guys that go there have wives..if he is doing this u shoud tell him something bout it.. i think its def fuckd up.

Answer 5

I don't care for strip clubs, but honestly if he wants to go to one every once in a while (like for a bachelor party or some silly guy-occasion) then I have no problem with it. If your bf frequents them to the point that you are being neglected, then I can see why you have cause for concern. If it's just an occasional thing, it shouldn't be a big deal.

If it truly is a big deal for you, then talk to him about it. Going to strip clubs is just one of those guy-things that will never go away no matter how many women protest or feel about it.

Answer 6

NO I SAY THE SAME THING!!! BUT YOU KNOW WHAT IM OVER IT ALREADY CAUSE I KNOW HE DOESNT GO TO ANY. I DOD WHEN I WAS YOUNGER AND IT WAS KINDA FUN... BUT THEY DONT ALWAYS RUB ON YOU LIKE YOU SAY ONLY IN T.J

Answer 7

Control freak? He's going to do whatever he wants regardless of what you say, think, and or do.  Maybe, if you and your friends shake your a$$ for him and his buddies some evening(s) he wouldn't have to go there... That's entertainment, get over it.  

Answer 8

Well the stupid part about it is she is taking it from one guy to the next and doing it. Guys don't even think of this. If you asked your man to l**k the other guys face he wouldn't but it is pretty much the same.

Answer 9

No not at all.

You have every right to not want you man out there infront of s*uts.

Talk to him if yit really bothers you that much, or you strip for him!!

lol

Answer 10

No, you are not wrong to feel this way. If your bf already goes to these things a lot, you are in for a battle to get him to stop. Decent men don't go to those places and especially decent engaged/committed/married men.

Answer 11

I hate them too.

They are a joke. Who would enjoy them but someone insecure and immature.