Strippers at stag parties really bother me. I don't know why. How can I get over it?

Question

Strippers at stag parties really bother me. I don't know why. How can I get over it?

Answer 1

Just think of it as another form of entertainment there because there is a demand for it.

Is it any worse than WWF or violent movies?  

If the girl wants to earn a living that way and people want to pay to watch it is no different than all the other ways people demean themselves (in the moment) for a buck.

I don't think you are required to watch.  

When women watch male entertainers it is seen as hilarious fun entertainment.  Maybe because men take it sexually serious it is more disturbing.

Answer 2

You can be man and enjoy it.

Answer 3

Go to the parties naked. . .  That should solve your problem.  If you can't beat em, join em. . .

Answer 4

Stop going to the parties or show up afterwards or leave the room and go outside for a bit to get some air.

Answer 5

relax and pull the stick out...also drink more.

Answer 6

Stop going

Answer 7

dont go to the parties, it bothers me too but for different reasons i think

Answer 8

stop going orrr just get super wasted that should fix it

Answer 9

well first we need to know are you male or female in order to answer appropriately.

Answer 10

Don't go to the parties..

Answer 11

Strippers annoy me all the time not just at stag parties.  really they get paid and all they do is take their clothes off?  how superficial and demeaning...get a real job.  i wouldn't try to get over just don't go to the party or show up and leave when the strippers get there.  if something bothers you you shouldn't try to change you should avoid it.

Answer 12

Aloha!

Anything bothering anyone should simply be shrugged off as 'a known issue' and avoided, worked around &/or 'dismissed'.  

Lots of things 'bother' lots of people but recognition of the circumstances & refusal to dwell on troublesome things will enable more enjoyment on endless diversions.

Best wishes, k-den, M1