Stuck between a rock and a hard place?

Question

My ex left me for a guy she barely knows (we had a fight one night - he's probably a rebound guy). At any rate, I held on for a couple of months thinking within that time frame she would realize and come back. I told her that I would always be there for her but I have to face reality that she may not or doesn't want to come back. Right now her response to everything is "I dunno." She was my best friend and I love her dearly. She says she feels the same but she hasn't made any attempt to come home. She says she is confused and I believe her just based on some of the things she's said and done. She's very special to me and I had plans to propose but I don't know which way to go. Some of my friends tell me to walk, she's not worth it (which is what I'm half inclined to do). Some of my other friends say don't walk away just yet, she'll come around - just continue to be there for her..if she was special to you walking away wouldn't be so easy. Kinda caught between a rock and a hard place - my mind says do one thing my heart says do something else. I know you guys will be objective. What do you guys think?

Answer 1

I know what you are going threw. But in all fairness you should move on with your life. She is playing a game right now, and having the time of her life, keeping you from moving forward, which is extremely selfish.

I know you are in love with her, and want to be with her, but she has already made you wait a couple of months with out showing interest in coming home.  Do yourself a favor and walk away. I wish you the best in what ever you choose to do and good luck, you deserve to find happiness.

Answer 2

RUN! What is going to happen when you fight again, another rebound guy? How many of those are you willing to wait through?  

Answer 3

Let me get this right....she left you for someone else and your sitting around waiting for her to come back to you?  

Do you see the issue yet?

Answer 4

Just be glad this didn't happen after you married her. Sorry, hun, I know it's painful, but you need to move on. DO NOT take her back under any circumstances. You don't want to end up having to visit your own kids, do you? Then get out now.

Answer 5

She left you for another guy and is still confused and not coming back.  That should tell you she is not the girl to propose to.  She isn't ready and doesn't know what she wants.  If she wanted you she wouldn't have left you for another guy.

Answer 6

no one can answer that question. you just have to make a choice and hope your right. don't take advice from anyone. they could be wrong. you can be there for her but don't be a doormat. good luck

Answer 7

She says "I dunno," meaning she's a functional illiterate.  Why marry one of those?

She means "I don't know because this other guy might not work out and I will want to come back to you if it doesn't, so I need to string you along."

Don't be a chump.  She won't respect you, even if she does come crawling back to you.  You'll be the cuckold she can kick around who will fawn over her no matter what.

Pick up the pieces and stop taking her chit.