Subtle s*x tricks that are sure to make my guy see stars.

Question

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 5 months, and intimate for 3, and at first I was really shy in bed and then I started getting a little curious. My guy is always satisfied after s*x but I really want to WOW him. I asked him what he likes and doesn't like or if there was anything he wanted to try, his response-- "18 year old guys aren't too picky, they take what they can get." But I don't want him to feel that way, I want him to feel like he's getting exactly what he needs. I'm still too shy to just jump on top and take control so does anyone have any little tricks I can try to heighten his pleasure and maybe get him to open up to me a little more?

...I'm getting worried, the s*x is great, but getting a little boring...

thanks :D

Answer 1

1. squeeze your muscles when he is inside you cus they love that you can practice when you go for a wee and stop in mid flow because they are the same muscles you use (it just makes you tighter for him)

2. enjoy yourself and relax, boys love it when you are really confident so work on this then you may be able to take control ;)

3. cosmo website give some great tips www.cosmopolitan.co.uk or i like www.ivillage.co.uk that gives some good advice aswell

:) good luck x*x

Answer 2

girl just jump on it

Answer 3

You both will have to mature enough to be able to talk about s*x and feelings and desires to change what you are doing.  You are still young.  You can experiment however you want.

Answer 4

Well if you think it's getting boring you will have to take charge . you start doing or asking him to do things to you that may spice up your s*x life . Just keep in mind he is 18 and guys at that age can not keep their mouths shut so whatever you decide just know his friends will know to  

Answer 5

You say you're too shy to just jump on top and take charge but that's exactly what they like. I was a little shy too but I told him to lay down and I put a blindfold on him. Gave him a little oral pleasure then jumped on top. He loved it. The blindfold made it more interesting.

Answer 6

the only way to do it is to ask the question to him or take control. But be careful, is he just taking what he gets or does he care that its you giving it to him?

Touching (but not grabbing), telling him you cant wait to get home and do the thang - those types of sensual acts always turns a guy on.

Answer 7

You've got s*x and love mixed up.

No matter what you do sexually, as long as it's just s*x, eventually it gets boring.  

When s*x is an expression of love, (rather than just the physical act, sweating together in bed........or wherever), then it's NEVER boring, it's a physical expressing of a much deeper emotional bond.

Quit worry about what to do, start thinking about why you're doing it, will your relationship last, or are you involved in mutual masturbation with him?

Luck