Suggest me pls can i get it done now ?

Question

hi i am 23 old and just joined a job as trainee and i have a gf she is 25 years old .. we both are in love and she is forcing to get married soon (even her parents ). but i have some responsibilities to be completed ... and i am a trainee now ..since she feels aged she s always asking to marrie pls suggest me some thing .. can i get married now or later

Note: i can convince her if i need to postpond

Answer 1

ya you can marry her and after that you can complete your responsibilities otherwise there a chance miss her in your life.

Answer 2

you dont NEED to have a reason

the fact that you are not ready in your own mind should be enough

and if its not, for her, or her obvioulsy over bearing meddling parents, perhaps its time you found a new girl, who wont pressure you into doing ANYTHING you dont want or feel ready to do

Answer 3

make her understand that getting married is not just because of age. if you want your marriage to last, make sure that both of you are ready IN ALL ASPECTS before you take your vows.

Answer 4

Hey slow down, nobody in the world has the right to force you into marriage.

You need to stand firm and say you want to complete your training first or you will not be able to support your new wife.

Thats assuming you want to marry her, if you dont want to marry her then you have to be honest and let her go.

Answer 5

If You Really Love Her, Why Not Propose. That Way She Will Get That Sense Of Security From You But Still You Don't Have To Get Married Straight Away. Tell Her You Want To Work & Save Money Before Getting Married That Way She Can Have The Wedding She Deserves.

It May Not Be Entirely 100% True, But If You Love Her, Don't Want To Lose Her & Want To Marry Her One Day, Maybe It's Something She Just Has To Hear For The Time Being.

Good Luck.

Answer 6

First of all,,this is youre life and no one elses.  You need to think about your future.  She should feel happy to have such a responsible man in her life.  If you feel you are not ready to get married than don't.  Why would she or her parents want to force something on you that you don't want right now.  It doesn't mean you dont want to marry her ever,  it just means NOT right now.. You need to tell them or her that you want to be financially secure before you make a big step like that.  Marriage is a huge step in life and needs to be taken seriously, and I am happy to see that you are not taking it as a joke.. Continue your job and establish your career, and when you're ready YOU do it... Anyway, its more meaningful when a guy porposes from his heart, NOT from doubt and force.. Good Luck!!