Suicide thoughts i need a friend?

Question

im very depressed and i desperately need someone to talk to who will listen and understand before its too late, im in a very dark place and just want the pain to be over. I wish i was not in this world

Answer 1

Chat to people on here. Or try the Samaritans (if you are in the UK): http://www.samaritans.org/

Phone them for free on 08457 90 90 90

They are trained to help people through difficult times 24hrs a day. It's all completely confidential, you wont even have to give your name if you don't want and you can hang up whenever you want.

or www.befrienders.org  if you are outside the United Kingdom.

Consider seeing your doctor too. They may be able to recommend some type of therapy to help you work through it. As well as giving you a check up to make sure your suicidal thoughts aren't a symptom of something else that is wrong.

Life is full of ups and downs. So when you're feeling down, bear with it and remember that something good will eventually come your way even if it doesn't feel like it right now.

E-mail me if you want to.

Take care =)

Answer 2

Oh my that is awful. Really please don't commit suicide. Believe me it's not right. There is always a way out and think of all the people that you will leave behind. Please don't do this. I'm not allowed to give my email address otherwise I would.

Answer 3

You can message me if you wanna talk, I appear offline but I'm on.

Answer 4

Hey........please give me a chance to listen to you!  I'm available for you 24-7.  Just click on my name, it'll send you to my profile where you can then e-mail me.  I will then give you my number where you can call collect any time you need someone to talk too okay?  Please, give us out here a chance to be there for you!  Remember, I'm available all hours, anytime, for whatever you need okay?

Answer 5

You got a lot offers already but you can email me if you want. Just click on my name. If you need something to tie you over till I respond you could go vandalize something (graffiti or smash a strangers car with a baseball bat) and see if that makes you feel any better. If not maybe you should talk to someone else.

Answer 6

if you have a youtube account talk to me oshiv

Answer 7

Hi Kate

I understand your pain and chronic depression. I am sorry you are feeling so low. You and I both know there is a way out of this pain.. I will be very much encouraged if you will share with me and I can let you know about the only way to answer the loneliness and pain that comes with total frustration of living in today's world. I am still healthy enough to share with you a message of hope if you are willing to talk to  me. I have found only one answer that is true and real 100% of the time. It is not the easiest thing to accept but it is the only hope that I hold on to. If you want to talk about it please let me know.

Answer 8

do this:

face the wall and say to the wall all of your problems and the reasons for the problem.

go in the mirror and say i will overcome all of my problems how ever their difficulty for many many times.

then call a friend or you neighbor for help. or go directly to a specialist. that is the best thing that i can advise. you are at the highest point of your axiety. the only advise left is to seek expert's help.

Answer 9

Oh God, please don't. If you wish to talk you can hit me up on myspace. my url is "hombrepajaro16"

Answer 10

I too feel lonely and depressed sometimes. I will be a friend of yours and listen to you. e-mail [e-mail]

savithri

Answer 11

Seek help. Call and talk to somebody.

Answer 12

do not do it... no matter how old you are, you probable have great things planned for your life. don't end it all because you're in a bad place. you'll make it through. and wow, look at all the answers, we're all trying to make you feel better, so SOME people in this stinkin world are GOOD people, who want to help. you're probably down in the dumps because of some stupid person who doesn't actually care about you, and is probably only focused on themself. just forget about them. try to move on and live your life to the fullest!

Answer 13

What's up?

Answer 14

ifyou have msn

add me [e-mail]

im always online if you even need to chat

Answer 15

you can talk to me email me at [e-mail]

id like to help

Answer 16

Hi Kate, if you need someone to talk to, I'm there for you. Send me a mail if you're interested. Click my name, go to my profile, send mail.  

Answer 17

Kate you can email me anytime, however, I want to tell you that nothing is so terrible that it cant be fixed. You need to see this little picture.  

In the middle of a field there is a huge big deep pit.  It looks small from the outside but it is like a cave under the ground. Deep, dismal, gloomy, smelly and full of mud at the bottom. There you are sitting in the mud feeling hopeless, useless, frightened, unworthy, isolated, lonely and terribly sad. You think no one cares about you. Sometimes you feel angry about something that hurt you in your past and you dwell on it feeling bitterness, revengeful, dislike, and it makes you feel suicidal and even think of death more and more often, why because you have lost all hope. So now you are steeped in self-pity and feeling morbid and where is it getting you? Nowhere, but stuck in a huge big hole of mud.

Did you know that negative feelings thoughts and emotions deceive you?They make you believe all sorts of negative things about you which actually are not true. Negative draws on negative and brings more negative things its way!  Now that's a scary thought isn't it. If you continue to listen to these voice it will lead to destruction.

Now do you really believe that God made you to be like this? No my girl he didn't, in fact he made you, because he loves you.  He knew you even before you were conceived.  It says so in Psalm 139. When he made you he looked at you and said "Kate is made just as I want her to look. She is the most beautiful child to me! She is perfect!"Then he gave you talents and gifts to use when you grew up. He gave you a thumbprint that there is no other one like it in the world.  You are unique, one of a kind and rare and God adores you. God even has a purpose for your life and look what you have chosen to do with your life? If I told you to choose to become positive, you would immediately think "I just cant!" Who told you that? A negative voice. SO what do you do?  You CHOOSE (you take the life line called 'choice' that God is throwing down to you in the cave) and you rise up and you confront those negative voices and tell them to go to h**l where they belong. Then substitute the negative thoughts with positive ones.  You get up and you climb out of the hole and what do you find outside? Fields of hope and the sky that has no limit and in the distance mountains of possibilities and promises and positive things.  All you have to do is take what is rightfully yours.

Now that we have established who you are to God, what then is your view of Him?  He is waiting patiently for you to say "Lord I am so sorry for listening to the wrong things and not hearing you instead.  I need you.  I need you forever in my life.  I want to know you and learn all that you want me to know about life, and I want to be whom you purposed me to be!  Please wont you come into my heart and fulfill my spirit and be with me forever?"

Then you begin to learn from him and he will lead you and guide you and take care of you. He will place angels around you to keep you safe.  He will take you besides still waters where he will restore your soul and behind you goodness and mercy will follow you all the days of your life.  He will even set a table of the finest food for you in the midst of your enemy and you will dine with him.  When you enter the valley of the shadow of death he would be with you and lead you through it and to a secure and safe place. When you are placed in the fire of refinement he will take you through it and you will come out radiant and shining l like a diamond

Now you have to choose to be positive and to take the focus off yourself.  Find someone who is hurting and be a friend to that person.  Help people who are struggling.  Be kind. be loving, find joy and peace and be loyal and trustworthy.  Be accountable to yourself and to others, be friendly and nice. YOU ARE SOMEBODY and God made you to be that! Be all that you can be and most of all give every problem pain and hurt to God.  He says you must cast ALL your cares on him and he will bring you peace! God is huge. Delight yourself in him and he WILL give you the desires of your heart. In Psalm 113 it says God leans forward to view the universe and the earth. That makes us really small doesn't it. God can do anything and he will if you are willing to put your faith, hope and trust in him.  He loves you my child, and today he is trying to get your attention. Take that lifeline called choice. Positive draws positive to it. Isn't that better than where you are right now?

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Answer 18

I'm sorry to hear you are depressed rember you are not alone!I suggest you talk to a paraent so you can get the right help,try finding and out let like poetry or dancing it really helps,if you feel you are an immedet danger to yourself try phoning a help line.you are welcome to talk to me my emal adress is [e-mail]

best of luck with the recovery