Summer love .... or not ?

Question

Ok so i've have been at my cottage for the past two weeks. While i was there i made a new .. "friend" well at least thats what we where at first. We started hanging out a lot like everyday. One day we where out late just walking in the woods and we stop to look at the stars and he kissed me ! I had to kiss him back it was just too perfect ! So i thought it was going to just be a "cottage love" thingy . However later that night he told me he was moving . He just happens to be moving a few blocks from me.

THE PROBLEM is that i kind off like this guy where i live. We go to the same school and him and i have also kissed. we ALSO hang out like everyday but arent exclusive.

What should i do? I like them both. Idk.... what to do what would you do?

Answer 1

two time them, but dont get caught

Answer 2

DON'T try to date oth of them. You'll be the one hurting in the end. And remember, the guy back at home, who goes to school with you likes you. The "cottage guy" may find someone new at his new school. So I say go for the guy back at home. It's your decision though. Good Luck!  

Answer 3

wait like, a month, hang out with both guys in ur own neighboorhood

see wich one you like more after that. :)

but if its about the same go with the cuter one:]

[:oliviarenne:]

Answer 4

do the one who's moving, then after he moves, go after the guy from school.

Answer 5

Do them both, separately and at the same time

Answer 6

i would pick the one i have a bettr time with, and just be friends with the other.

Answer 7

why not just have them both not like either one will find out about the other.  

Answer 8

Make a choice. You know in your heart who the right one is. I would say go with the 1 you ave more fun with.

Answer 9

you should be honest and let them both know that you don't wanna be exclusive and that you just prefer to hang out with them as it pleases you...being honest lets them make an informed judgment about whether or not they still want to pursue you as a love interest...and whether they agree or not, you'll save all of you a lot of time and energy and confusion...good luck...

Answer 10

Not. It's just a girl fantasy from watching way too many movies.

Answer 11

hmmm, toughie,

if i were you i would just stay single and hope for the best.

Answer 12

Weigh out the pros and cons of each potential relationship. Make a list so you won't get things confused. As you are trying to make a decision, try to remember which one you feel happiest around and which one makes you think of a serious relationship (if that's what you're looking for). After all the lovely things, think of the finances. Which one is more likely to keep a stable job and help provide for you and possibly a future family. (This last bit is least important and shouldn't play a huge role in the final decision.)

I did this when I was in a similar situation. The difference was that I was engaged. The other guy was someone I just started talking to on-line. After writing down what I enjoyed about each person, I realized I was much more into the internet fling. I've been living with him for a year now and don't miss my ex-fiance a bit. ^_^

Answer 13

depends who you've liked longer, or like more

Answer 14

cottage ;) deeffs

he sounds more romantic, and you could take him up to the cottage with you, for some fun

Answer 15

Look you're over thinking this way too much. You don't tell them about each other, and just go out with whoever asks you first. Simple as that. If one of them asks if there's other guys, just pinch his nose and say "my my sir I do believe your jealous." and then change the subject. As fast as possible.

Answer 16

I would say go for the one who asks you on a date first cuz thats what i always do. I dont like the shy guy but if you do.. just do your thang girl :) just don't get hurt

Answer 17

i say cottage guy, he suonds more romantic/spontanteous.

juuuuuuusssss my opinion though.

Answer 18

I would think about how i feel about them both, is one just a one time "cottage love" and the other is a real deal boy friend ? You have to make a decision before you hurt one of them !

Answer 19

who do you have more fun with Cottage guy or School Guy witch ever one makes you happier and seems like they will make you laugh and be trustful than choose that guy.