My sister is 17, she is planning on going to college next month, she needs 410.00$ for a deposit on her dorm room. I was going to be paying the full cost of her deposit until a few months ago and today I plan on not helping her out at all because she does not listen to reason and I think what she is doing is wrong. Please read all before you answer.
2 months ago was our first falling out with me helping her on her way. My mom is struggling to support my family ( I live away married w/ kids) I send money to help all the time to my mother, anyhow my sister is 17 so she can't get a loan for her schooling until she is 18 which is in October, I asked her to save my mom a lot of trouble if she would wait until next year and I will co-sign on a loan with her for her school, its not an option for her so shes expecting my mom to pay the school 3,850$ every 3 months, my mom can barely afford gas a food but shes doing it because my sister quilt tripped her and can't wait 8 more months. My mother also has 2 other children in the house 15 yr old brother and 8 yr old sister to support.
Today she called me and told me she has 600$ in the bank and is planning on paying her friends speeding ticket causing an accident for 420.00$ so she does not go to jail and that I need to send her the money for her deposit right away or she wont have a room in the college. I do not have the money until the 15th of this month to send her, I told her that, I also told her she needs to pay for her room and then I will send her the money on the 15th and restock her bank account so she has gas and food at college, she told me no Im not going to pay it I need to pay for my friends fine so she doesnt go to jail today, so can you send whatever you have so I can reserve the room, so I told her you either pay your dorm deposit today and reserve your room and I will send you money on the 15th, or pay your friends fine and risk not going to college and I will not send you anymore money.
Am I wrong for doing this? Or should she realize that my mother who is struggling and myself with 2 kids who doesn't have a lot of money to begin with is more important than her retarded friend who was speeding in snow caused and accident and now might go to jail because she cant pay her fine?
She expects everyone to pay for her while she spends her money on friends and brand name clothing for college, I want to help but I am so frustrated!!!!!!
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