Suppose to be my baby's due date, how to deal?

Question

I'm having a very hard day today, it's suppose to be the due date of my baby that i lost in january that i lost when it was 10 weeks old. i'm on the verge of tears all day. thank God that i was at work today because i would have been crying all day. i was hoping i would be pregnant buy the time this day came around, but i have been having nothing but problems with my hormones and a cyst on my ovary. thank you for hearing me out and i was wondering how you got through this day. Thank God it's almost over!

Answer 1

I lost 5 babies this way. You know it's not easy. One of my friends gave her lost baby a name and pretended that he will be born soon... waiting for the right time to be born. Actually you can't really get over it. All your problems will be in the past and your baby will come... trust me. Think +vely. Life goes on despite and inspite of everything. You know having a good cry helps a lot. Don't do it alone. your hubby is also feeling bad about it. the one thing I know I should not have done was to blame myself for the miscarriages. It's not your fault... it's no ones fault. It just happened because God wanted it so.Be strong.

Answer 2

I don't know firsthand what you are going through.  I just want to send my condolences, and tell you that I am very sorry for your loss.  I cannot imagine what it must feel like.  I will definitely keep you and your family in my prayers, and hope that you will soon be pregnant and have a healthy child!  

Answer 3

I do not have any experience in this situation. But I am sorry for your loss it must be very hard on you. I hope you have carring people around you to support you. Like I said I don't have experience in this kind of situation. But I think I would plant a tree in memory of your baby & watch it as it grows & blossoms every year to pay tribute to baby. As baby is not forgotten. That might be hard too.  I am so sorry. But you are a good mom to love that angel baby so much. : )

Answer 4

You are so strong! Everyone that has gone through this handles it differently. I lost one of my pregnancies when I was 13 almost 14 weeks along and it was devastating. BUT when I hit what would have been my due day I was pregnant with my second child so I think it made it easier for me to deal with. Just keep your head up and know it is alright to cry.  

Answer 5

I'll always keep you and your family in my prayers!!!! Take care of your self and please always remember that GOD knows best.. He want never leave.. Take care  

Answer 6

Calm down. relax. I went throuch the exact same thing. It is very hard , but you think that that little angel is in heaven. It is always very hard buut you just have to go along and you cant let it affect you forever. Now I have a set of twin girls. But always remeber , You can always be strong .If you can consider adopting. there are many babies who would love a parent . But be strong. It is never easy for a mom to lose their baby.

Answer 7

Brandie, you are not alone. My due date was May 15, and it was very hard because I have not been able to get pregnant again to make the pain easier. Now I also have a cyst on my ovary that cancelled my IVF cycle and I have to wait two months hoping that that cyst will be gone. To make my due date worse, I had a cousin-in-law give birth to a healthy baby 10 days after and a first cousin give birth 20 days later. I was unable to congratulate them because I was in deep mourning. Every time I see their children now, they are the same age that my baby would have been.

Life is not fair. But we have to be strong and persevere because there are people out there that have it worse than us.

I am sorry for your loss.

Answer 8

Everyone handles it differently.  When I hit my due date I cried most of the day.  I also talked to hubby about my feelings, which helped.  You have to do what's comfortable for you, and if that means crying, then so be it.  

I'm very sorry for your loss.