Supposed to be a mom?

Question

ok 2 weeks before my birthday i found out i had a miscarriage. [beginning of march] well my due date was today. i thought i was over losing my baby. i lost it at 11.5 weeks found out when i was 14 weeks. i mean i felt like i was moving on but today i just keep asking what if? i was over it i thought but idk if it's because today was supposed to be the day i had my baby or what i'm thinking of it again and it's upsetting. so my question is...is it normal to feel lonley today?

Answer 1

wow im soo sorry to hear about that! if i was in your shoes i would def. be feeling the same way thats a tragic thing to go through i mean you lost it at early stage of labor but it being your due date today i could understand why you would feel the way you do. Just know that even though your baby isnt here today he/she is in a much better place! I hope things get better for you!  

Answer 2

very normal.  I am sorry for your miscarriage.  They say time heals but somethings take much longer... there was nothing that was your fault but still it is normal to feel badly.

Answer 3

I had a miscarriage in January and would have been due in Late August.   I dont think its something you can ever get over.  Even though I am 25 weeks pregnant now I still tear up when I think about the first one.   Its very normal for you to feel lonely as I think even husbands dont understand the pain of miscarriages like the mother.

My heart is with you.

Answer 4

Sure dear, that was suppose to be a special day for you.  You will get better with time.  This was a hurdle you needed to get over.