Surfer Guys- why did he stop talking to me?

Question

There's a guy at my school- he competes for the guy's division of the bodyboarding team there (we don't have a girls bodyboarding team). Nobody really knows I bodyboard (I'm pretty good too- I can do 360's, airs, rollos, you name it) but I never tell anyone because they think it's weird that a girl bodyboards. Anyway, I saw this guy (who's top ranked at our school) out in the water. He always used to say hi to me, we'd talk at school, but now, after seeing him out in the water, he never talks to me anymore- in fact he completely ignores me. I didn't cut him off or take any of his waves or anything. Why won't he talk to me now that he knows I'm a bodyboarder?

Answer 1

Because he knows how g*y bodyboarding is, and is projecting.

Answer 2

He's jealous.

Answer 3

maby he liked u and uv wigged him out by bn as good as he is...ask him if he wants to catch sum waves :) i bet he says yes

Answer 4

If what you say is true, you need to take action and make a team for girls. Your voice will make it so. I'm serious, go as high as you can in regards to front office personnel. Do it.

As for your guy probs, Don't pay attention to him. Thats the best you can do, If he's not paying attention to you - do the same. A successful girl/ confident girl (whos good at what she does) and doesn't pay attention to the guy is SO attractive, just do what you do on the surf and try and establish a girls team. See what puzzle pieces fall into place.

Answer 5

guys can smell insecurity like dogs smell fear. You need to let go of your insecurities, stop worrying what people will think of you for being a "sponge hugger" or what some guy thinks of you. The more you think about it the more insecure and awkward you look to them. Nothing is more attractive than self confidence. It's not about self esteem, it's about no self-estimation, just humility and being who you are, who you love to be.

Answer 6

Your prolly good and it freaks him out, now your competition.

Personally Id just ask him straight out what the problem is.

You wanna be buddies or even more just tell him. If he can't handle it then he wasn't worth it to start with, fork his immature self! Theres lotsa other dudes out there on the waves that would appreciate a kewl chick with like interests. Get out there and "Outshine" him!

Answer 7

I suspect that you damaged his fragile, teen age male ego. It's hard to be the Big Man on Campus body boarder, when some insignificant chick body boards better than him. (No you aren't insignificant, I'm spinning that from his angle).

Now, you are cool, and I am sure you are pretty, I can tell you are smart (you are one of the few people who I have seen write a grammatically correct question on this site), and I bet you body board really well, too. With all of that said, why do you need this wanker to talk to you in the first place. There are lots of guys other who are dying to talk to you, they just can't get up the nerve. be yourself, ignore him, and somebody much nicer will want to talk to you.