Surgical Abortion vs Medical abortion at 6 weeks?

Question

Hi , i have a Girl child 17 months and now my wife is pregnant that she would not like to continue, please do write if you ever experienced a Surgical Abortion or Medical Abortion. We are not able to figure out which one to go for ...have read extensive net but would like to read from real people own experiences

Many Thanks in advance

Answer 1

you really need to have a look at the pictures on the society for the protection of the unborn child website. why would she want to get rid of something so precious created between the two of you? just imagine if that had been your first child. maybe you should have used something if you didn't want to create another innocent life.  

Answer 2

Why are you even asking a group of women who are trying their hardest just to get a baby to the house??? YOU ARE A MURDERER! Plain and simple. And whoever it was that said it wasn't YES IT IS! The BABY has a heart beat at 18 days post conception. THEREFORE IT IS A LIVING BEING! This question really hurts, that you could keep one child and kill another, I'd hate to be you and trying to explain this to our Lord and Savior. I went into preterm labor with my first child and had him a little over 24 weeks, guess what HE WAS A LIVING BREATHING HUMAN BEING WITH EVERYTHING THAT ONE OF US HAS. He ended up passing away after 26 days due to doctor and nurses error, but he was alive. And I'm just praying that I will be able to have a healthy pregnancy and bring a baby home, and here you are killing them faster than some of us can even think about having them. What's wrong with adoption? If you don't want to care for it at least give the baby and a family that will love it a chance.  

Answer 3

I've experienced neither. Personally, I don't think you will get a lot of good advice here because most people are continuing with their pregnancy. The best person to contact is her doctor.

*this isn't really a thumbs down thing. For the best advice on this certain type of issue she really needs to contact her doctor - and regardless of what your political stance is that is the best advice you could give.

Answer 4

Either way, its murder

Answer 5

At six weeks i suggest a surgical. Less painful sice you get anaesthesia and then you experience a normal period. Nothing out of the ordinary. Just a regular visit to the doctor and a normal period after. Two weeks later you return to make sure everything is ok and you will not regret it.  A medical abortion can be painful. Women experience severe bleeding and it can come along with bad bad cramps. One lady I personally know could not stop bleeding and i have heard really bad stories about medical abortions. So I suggest Surgical. you will not regretit.  

Answer 6

This has never happened to me but taking from my friends experience I would suggest the surgical abortion. Its more effective and less painful. Medical abortions are very painful and sometimes are not accurate. Pretty much pain wise i am told its just like giving labour.

Answer 7

wow..You can keep your first but not the second..I can't wait till you have to explain that one at gods gates..Yeah this isn't the place to ask, maybe you should take this one to your doctor..

Answer 8

I wouldn't think that you would want to kill your baby. Just a thought. Abortion is a really real thing which is why s*x is too and it should be treated accordingly. You created something and now you want to destroy it. It does not make sense to me. Think about it. Abortion is murder. Legal murder. Well i guess it is as they say, Ignorance is bliss...

Answer 9

This is sad to me I am trying to get pregnant for a year and to see a question like this just really hurts.Call a doctor for goodness sake

Answer 10

as far as medical abortion goes, it's pretty straight forward.  It's typically done in two stages, and there is some pain associated with it.  I'm not familiar with surgical, but I assume it's more involved, costs more, and will leave some scars.  The best person to ask would be your wifes OB doc.  He/she will let you know what's best for your wife.  

I don't know if I would have put this on here, it'll p**s a LOT of ladies off

Good luck

*crazysweetinnocence- shut your dumbass mouth about it being murder.  It's not, and you know it

Answer 11

medical - less trauma to the cervix as with a surgical it is forceable stretched. and there is less chance of lasting side effects with medical.

but is only offered up till 7 weeks. some drs do it up till 9weeks but its effectiveness is questioned.

Answer 12

A surgical abortion takes less than 15 minutes, with minimal bleeding and pain afterward. She can chose to be put to sleep (general anesthesia), although it really isn't necessary. I experienced mild cramping for an hour after the procedure, and light bleeding (less than a period) for a few days following.

A medical abortion can take hours to days to complete and is accompanied by heavy bleeding and strong menstrual-like cramps. Others side affects include vomiting and dizziness. It has a higher failure rate than surgical, and an aspiration abortion or D&C may be needed if the pregnancy is not fully terminated. Many women prefer medical abortions because it feels similar to a miscarriage, the pregnancy is ended privately at home, and there is no risk of injury to the cervix or uterus. If she works, she may need to take a few days off for this procedure, because of the heavy bleeding and the cramps can be severe (no pain medication is prescribed following any abortion procedure).

Good luck with whatever method she chooses.

Answer 13

have you ever looked down at a baby and said, " this baby is soo cute"...now think of that baby getting killed...abortion is killing an inocent child....think of a sibling a cousin a nephew a niece...how would u feel if they were killed

Answer 14

how bad would it be for you to keep the baby? gee i thought abortion was only in teenagers mind with no support whatsoever

Edit:

my pregnancy wasnt planned either and i have to have a c-section which im terrified to have again but i have to suck it up as i was the one that procreated this baby and is a part of me and is not the babys fault that you guys had s*x